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I'm lonely I have no friends and it feels stupid
I'm lonely I suppose I have no friends I have autism and ADHD and I just have a hard time talking to people so I usually just don't talk at all but I'm starting to notice that at school (I'm 13 btw boy) not even the teachers notice me not that anyone in the class was in the first place but for example, I'd go into class sit down and the teacher would start taking attendance and mark me absent I almost failed because of that but anyways my last friend I had is gone now and I've been fine for the the past 3 weeks I guess but now the loneliness is bad it makes me sad I'm all alone now I haven't talked to anyone for weeks except for my family but even that has gone down I just don't know what to do anymore I want to make friends but it feels like I can't I feel alone and it hurts I just want someone to talk to or talk to me at least once.
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Many group activities don't require talking to participate in them. Various exercise groups, art groups, musical groups, community gardens, open woodworking shops are what come immediately to mind. Libraries may offer other groups, or have bulletin boards that advertise of them. Community Centers often offer informal group classes too. Some local newspapers will list various activities. Activities may increase opportunities to be with peers, and forge some friendships over time.
When younger I actually hired a tutor who specialized in learning disabilities and she recommended two books on communication. We went over some chapters together. She had posted her services on a library bulletin board. What I found even more helpful was locating someone who was able to validated my feelings. In my case this was a therapist. This made all the difference in the world to me.
I am so sorry that you are having difficulties socially. I do relate because I also have autism and have felt your struggle many times. However, I was fortunate to have a twin brother help me through early life. This also had issues because he did not have autism and was popular in school. Also, I miss him terribly he passed away from brain cancer years ago.
I happened to discover an amateur radio station exhibit at the county fair when I was aged thirteen years. I was fascinated-- especially the communication using Morse Code aspect. It combines tonality, jigsaw puzzle and crossword puzzle similarity to me, is non vocal communication and provides a communication buffer. It also elevates my low self esteem and is fun friend finding. I encourage you to look into it. I still enjoy its fun and challenge and use it almost daily. If I can help, simply reply here. Best Wishes!!