Help needed not being taken seriously

Posted by szelisk @szelisk, May 21 8:32am

For the past 4 years, my GI system has been getting worse. I have Celiac and Microscopic Colitis, both confirmed by biopsy. Even though all the blood test show I have not been having gluten. My last colonoscopy showed a round lession (looks like a rug burn). Taking the prep I felt like I poured alcohol on an open wound. I would like to visit Mayo, unfortunately, many MD's don't believe how bad it is. When you are afraid to eat or drink water because you will have explosive diarrhea. Below is the lession no one can identify.

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@szelisk

Yes, my celiac was confirmed 25 years ago. My microscopic colitis (lymphatic) about 10 years ago. The collagianous last year. I’ve had genetic testing which shows a disposition towards Crohn’s but no confirmation yet. They did the celiac panel to make sure I was adhering to gluten free diet

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Your case and my case are perfect examples of how similar and complex and dissimilar we all are. My GI(ex) told me that "there is no protocol for testing for celiac compliance ", I didn't think that was right then and now you proved it was wrong. We need to be able to trust our doctors, but I don't.

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@shelleyw

Your case and my case are perfect examples of how similar and complex and dissimilar we all are. My GI(ex) told me that "there is no protocol for testing for celiac compliance ", I didn't think that was right then and now you proved it was wrong. We need to be able to trust our doctors, but I don't.

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Unfortunately, I agree. When you find a good one you have to hold on.

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@shelleyw

Makes me want to quit eating and only drink. I was diagnosed with celiac disease 18 years ago, I was shocked, I was and if I eat gluten now, I have no problems. My celiac disease was found by accident. My vitamin D was deficient and my PTH was high, low, erratic. So GI did the endoscopy and I had celiac and severe damage to my villi. Now 18 years later, my CIC caused a partial small bowel obstruction and a CT scan showed damage in my pancreas and that I have a redundant flexure(my large colon is extra long). The damaged pancreas led , in a roundabout way, led to elevated calcium and damage to muscles probably causing my CIC. I don't have UC, is that the reason for the lesson? What did the pathology report say about the lesion? What did your doctor say? Are you expected to continue pooping over the lesion? Gosh, just typing that word sounds excruciatingly painful AND not normal.
I am 65 and can still treated dismissively! I think I trust lawyers more than I trust drs. I have very little confidence in just about everything in our medical system. Prior to the celiac diagnosis I was told that my CIC and multiple other serious health issues were all caused by my childhood abuse. Why my PCP put that in my file I have no idea. There was nothing that could have explained her putting that in my files, cuz there was none. Some yrs later , my neurologist who gave me Botox for migraines, nearly got got his face rearranged (half kidding), when I showed him a video clip of some type of tremor/seizure that I had; he actually laughed at me, then looked at his computer screen and said " oh, I see now, that was part of your conversion disorder, due to your childhood abuse." That is a direct quote. I was so stunned, I just left his office as fast as I could. Now I know that it may have been caused by a sudden drop in my calcium levels.
Diarrhea was not my problem, but it is now. My colon will not push 💩out, the smooth muscles that perform this process are damaged due to 5-7 years of elevated calcium and Hyperparathyroidism ( has nothing to do with the thyroid glands). You might want to check it out online and see if it has any signs of being a problem for you.
I might suggest taking a trusted advocate (family, friend) to your appointments. They can help keep YOUR agenda on track, not the drs. Also, I have found that taking a notebook with questions ready and room for your friend to take notes for you is helpful. It helps me remember which questions are the most important for me and it lets the dr. know that you came prepared. Best of luck 🤞 Shelley

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Hi,

From experience I can say that if one’s traumas from the past are not addressed for sure one will be sick always.

I’ve done research on this, and there’s a lot information all over the world about how psychological trauma affects health. We can’t get our adult person healthy until we get our child person healthy.

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@cgper

Hi,

From experience I can say that if one’s traumas from the past are not addressed for sure one will be sick always.

I’ve done research on this, and there’s a lot information all over the world about how psychological trauma affects health. We can’t get our adult person healthy until we get our child person healthy.

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Understood, but you first would need to have actual/perceived childhood trauma, to have any psychological impact to heal. I have enough physical health issues to deal with, I am extremely grateful that I didn't have any traumas in my childhood. Those that have had abuse and trauma, have suffered in ways I can't even begin to imagine. My heart goes out to all those affected by childhood trauma.

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@shelleyw

Makes me want to quit eating and only drink. I was diagnosed with celiac disease 18 years ago, I was shocked, I was and if I eat gluten now, I have no problems. My celiac disease was found by accident. My vitamin D was deficient and my PTH was high, low, erratic. So GI did the endoscopy and I had celiac and severe damage to my villi. Now 18 years later, my CIC caused a partial small bowel obstruction and a CT scan showed damage in my pancreas and that I have a redundant flexure(my large colon is extra long). The damaged pancreas led , in a roundabout way, led to elevated calcium and damage to muscles probably causing my CIC. I don't have UC, is that the reason for the lesson? What did the pathology report say about the lesion? What did your doctor say? Are you expected to continue pooping over the lesion? Gosh, just typing that word sounds excruciatingly painful AND not normal.
I am 65 and can still treated dismissively! I think I trust lawyers more than I trust drs. I have very little confidence in just about everything in our medical system. Prior to the celiac diagnosis I was told that my CIC and multiple other serious health issues were all caused by my childhood abuse. Why my PCP put that in my file I have no idea. There was nothing that could have explained her putting that in my files, cuz there was none. Some yrs later , my neurologist who gave me Botox for migraines, nearly got got his face rearranged (half kidding), when I showed him a video clip of some type of tremor/seizure that I had; he actually laughed at me, then looked at his computer screen and said " oh, I see now, that was part of your conversion disorder, due to your childhood abuse." That is a direct quote. I was so stunned, I just left his office as fast as I could. Now I know that it may have been caused by a sudden drop in my calcium levels.
Diarrhea was not my problem, but it is now. My colon will not push 💩out, the smooth muscles that perform this process are damaged due to 5-7 years of elevated calcium and Hyperparathyroidism ( has nothing to do with the thyroid glands). You might want to check it out online and see if it has any signs of being a problem for you.
I might suggest taking a trusted advocate (family, friend) to your appointments. They can help keep YOUR agenda on track, not the drs. Also, I have found that taking a notebook with questions ready and room for your friend to take notes for you is helpful. It helps me remember which questions are the most important for me and it lets the dr. know that you came prepared. Best of luck 🤞 Shelley

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Hello Shellyw,
Are you stating you now eat gluten even though you have been diagnosed with celiac disease?

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@joy4trees

Hello Shellyw,
Are you stating you now eat gluten even though you have been diagnosed with celiac disease?

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95% of the time I am 100% gluten free... but if I eat gluten I will not have any of the normal bad symptoms that usually occur for celiac disease. Yet I am definitely a celiac patient, with severe intestinal damage and my blood tests and I have the DNA alleles for celiac.

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That looks awful .
Try to get into Mayo or any teaching hospital 🏥. Cleveland Clinic in Ohio , Johns Hopkins , MD . Many good hospitals in NYC .
Where do you live ?
I have soooooo many chronic digestive disorders daily . Ruined my life 11 years now .
I can barely eat anything. I’m so sick 🤢. I even went to Mayo in Jax 2021 for 3 big tests . Ive had over 20 tests and 7 diagnoses. 6 th Gastro Dr . No one can fix me . Nothing has helped . I feel for you .
Def get a 2 nd & 3 rd opinion.
🙏

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@rozy288

That looks awful .
Try to get into Mayo or any teaching hospital 🏥. Cleveland Clinic in Ohio , Johns Hopkins , MD . Many good hospitals in NYC .
Where do you live ?
I have soooooo many chronic digestive disorders daily . Ruined my life 11 years now .
I can barely eat anything. I’m so sick 🤢. I even went to Mayo in Jax 2021 for 3 big tests . Ive had over 20 tests and 7 diagnoses. 6 th Gastro Dr . No one can fix me . Nothing has helped . I feel for you .
Def get a 2 nd & 3 rd opinion.
🙏

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So sorry to hear that, it’s sad seeing how many of us are silently suffering or being labeled a hypochondriac.

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@szelisk

So sorry to hear that, it’s sad seeing how many of us are silently suffering or being labeled a hypochondriac.

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Well we have diagnosed issues but the fact no one and nothing helps us is the most frustrating part .
It gets to our metal health . How can it not ?

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@szelisk

So sorry to hear that, it’s sad seeing how many of us are silently suffering or being labeled a hypochondriac.

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You are SO RIGHT!!!

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