Has anyone felt urine after masturbating

Thanks for your reply. Seems to recovered quickly ftom ED if you were able to have intercourse a couple of months after surgery.

Yes, but it was a verrrrry slow recovery process and recently at 13+ months after NS RARP do I feel like I'm finally back to normal (or at least in the ball park). At first I was maybe 70% when I started trying a couple months after surgery. I tolerated the meds well and have no health conditions, so my urologist had me on daily 5 mg tadalafil and told me to take 100 mg sildenafil when I wanted to have sex (as the sildenafil seemed to work a bit better for me). Even with the meds, I'd only get maybe 70% firmness at first and I'd lose it quickly. Fortunately my wife was incredibly patient and understanding. Those early attempts were probably more accurately characterized as therapy/rehab rather than actually enjoyable. I think they were stressful for both of us. But ever so slowly things progressed. Only in the last 2 weeks (after 13+ months after NS RARP) have we finally gotten back to effectively normal. Early on there it was very discouraging and there were times I doubted whether I'd ever have normal sex again. The following video I found most helpful, especially as he explains that it's often a 2 year recovery process after surgery. That helped me a lot to deal with the slow recovery. Best wishes.

Yes indeed, one of several unexpected things that my urologist did not share with me is the slow recovery from what seems like ED forever (the older you get), but also that you may very well ejaculate urine...a lot of urine. That is a complete turn-off. No woman wants to experience that. As soon as I am fully-recovered and can get/keep an erection to allow full sexual intercourse without ED/performance regrets, I'll be wearing a condom to hopefully catch "all" of the urine that I might ejaculate. The best way to prevent that is to urinate right before you anticipate having sex. If you are moving from the living room to the bedroom, stop in the bathroom first. It might feel like you're killing the mood as she awaits you in bed, but that wait is better than her unpleasant, near-disgust of you potentially filling her up with urine at climax. BTW - you sound like you might be younger...perhaps in your '50's still? Your post-surgical recovery to the point of being able to have an erection and perform sexually sounds amazing...I don't think a guy in his 60's or beyond could/will manage that. It is usually six months to a year or more before a man can perform again, based on the literature that I have read. Some men never recover that ability.

I agree that age is a big factor, but I was 70 when I had NS RARP last year. I think a big part of my recovery is I had an outstanding surgeon and a big dose of luck that things went very well during surgery. Even though I'm fully continent I also still do Kegals twice a day and regularly workout at the gym (including core). And yes, I still make sure to urinate before having sex even though I'm not having urine releases any longer during sex. That's just part of accepting that, best case, it's still a bit of a "new normal". Best wishes.

I am 52, partner still in her 30s. So, sex is important and climacturia a big concern. I am fairly confident that I will eventually control the incontinence and recover erections. And for the latter, implants seem to work pretty well. But the prospect of persistent climacturia is a concern. Not sure if a sling can prevent it if one is otherwise continent.

I am very annoyed and surprised that this is not discussed before surgery. It seems that urologists neither follow up on it.