Yes.
That was hands down the hardest thing I’ve had to do. Heartbreaking.
Thank you for offering your ear! I appreciate it greatly.
My oldest daughter is very helpful but she has one year of college left. When she goes back it will be very hard. I won’t see her again until Christmas & that’s not guaranteed.
I can imagine that telling your family about the diagnosis was one of the hardest things you've had to do. You might appreciate some of the comments and resources shared in this related discussion:
- Family dynamics challenging when a parent has cancer: Want to connect https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/group-focused-on-families-and-parent-with-cancer/
When do you travel to Mayo Clinic? Will you have someone accompany you?
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I hope your adult children are some support.
I live in Rochester, but am only in town part of summer. Other times in northern MN cabin. If anything I can do to help or just someone to talk to, let me know. I am cancer survivor, but never in same situation you are in.
Yes.
That was hands down the hardest thing I’ve had to do. Heartbreaking.
Thank you for offering your ear! I appreciate it greatly.
My oldest daughter is very helpful but she has one year of college left. When she goes back it will be very hard. I won’t see her again until Christmas & that’s not guaranteed.
I’m traveling to Rochester location from rural Alaska. I’ve been there twice already - once for labs/scans & early this week for biopsy.
I was unprepared for the stage 4 diagnosis. My care in Alaska & waiting for Mayo to have availability has wasted precious time. Now the realization that this is not curable is sinking in.
I’m 56 with 8 beautiful kids - four still at home. I don’t need to say more. I know we all know how devastating this cancer is.
I’m just looking for support.
@tammie4jc
I hope your adult children are some support.
I live in Rochester, but am only in town part of summer. Other times in northern MN cabin. If anything I can do to help or just someone to talk to, let me know. I am cancer survivor, but never in same situation you are in.
Welcome to Mayo Connect, I hope you find it helpful and supportive.
I am sure your full of questions and anxiety. Many members have beem in same situation your in.
On Connect you can read comments from oldest to newest, or sort from newest to oldest.
Which Mayo location are you going to? Do you have to travel far?
I’m traveling to Rochester location from rural Alaska. I’ve been there twice already - once for labs/scans & early this week for biopsy.
I was unprepared for the stage 4 diagnosis. My care in Alaska & waiting for Mayo to have availability has wasted precious time. Now the realization that this is not curable is sinking in.
I’m 56 with 8 beautiful kids - four still at home. I don’t need to say more. I know we all know how devastating this cancer is.
I’m just looking for support.
Diagnosed with stage 4 gallbladder cancer.
I have my first appointment with the oncologist at Mayo.
I’m having a hard time finding support.
Is anyone still here?
Welcome to Mayo Connect, I hope you find it helpful and supportive.
I am sure your full of questions and anxiety. Many members have beem in same situation your in.
On Connect you can read comments from oldest to newest, or sort from newest to oldest.
Which Mayo location are you going to? Do you have to travel far?
Diagnosed with stage 4 gallbladder cancer.
I have my first appointment with the oncologist at Mayo.
I’m having a hard time finding support.
Is anyone still here?
@johnny2053, I'm tagging @waflanders to make sure they saw your question. I believe @alie@edie78t@lovingwifeterry also had treatment with gemcitabine and cisplatin plus durvalumab and may be able to share their experiences.
Johnny, did you decide to go ahead with treatment? How are you doing?
@johnny2053, I'm tagging @waflanders to make sure they saw your question. I believe @alie@edie78t@lovingwifeterry also had treatment with gemcitabine and cisplatin plus durvalumab and may be able to share their experiences.
Johnny, did you decide to go ahead with treatment? How are you doing?
I have been on this regimen since June 29, 2023. I am on a 3-week cycle, chemo on the first day of the first 2 weeks and off the 3rd week. I only get the Imfinzi once on that cycle. I had a scan after 4 cycles and the size of the tumor was "relatively unchanged". However, the good news is that I have been able to manage the side effects well which includes (for me), nausea feeling, fatigue, loss of appetite and constipation.
You can manage the side effects by reading up and by trial and error to see what works and what does not. If your tumor is growing, you should not wait! Hope this helps.
My oncologist wants me to start on gem/cis/durvalumab because 2 of my lymph nodes are getting bigger.How long were you on the gem/cis and did it work?I am reluctant to do the treatment , do you think it s worth it.Any reply will be appreciated
@johnny2053, I'm tagging @waflanders to make sure they saw your question. I believe @alie@edie78t@lovingwifeterry also had treatment with gemcitabine and cisplatin plus durvalumab and may be able to share their experiences.
Johnny, did you decide to go ahead with treatment? How are you doing?
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Hi @tammie4jc, I'm tagging fellow members like @pgf @waflanders @alie @formayor @heartofgold57 @viopp @sonic997 @johnny2053 @edie78t. who have experience with gallbladder cancer either as a patient or family caregiver.
I can imagine that telling your family about the diagnosis was one of the hardest things you've had to do. You might appreciate some of the comments and resources shared in this related discussion:
- Family dynamics challenging when a parent has cancer: Want to connect
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/group-focused-on-families-and-parent-with-cancer/
When do you travel to Mayo Clinic? Will you have someone accompany you?
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That was hands down the hardest thing I’ve had to do. Heartbreaking.
Thank you for offering your ear! I appreciate it greatly.
My oldest daughter is very helpful but she has one year of college left. When she goes back it will be very hard. I won’t see her again until Christmas & that’s not guaranteed.
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I hope your adult children are some support.
I live in Rochester, but am only in town part of summer. Other times in northern MN cabin. If anything I can do to help or just someone to talk to, let me know. I am cancer survivor, but never in same situation you are in.
Have you told your family?
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2 ReactionsI’m traveling to Rochester location from rural Alaska. I’ve been there twice already - once for labs/scans & early this week for biopsy.
I was unprepared for the stage 4 diagnosis. My care in Alaska & waiting for Mayo to have availability has wasted precious time. Now the realization that this is not curable is sinking in.
I’m 56 with 8 beautiful kids - four still at home. I don’t need to say more. I know we all know how devastating this cancer is.
I’m just looking for support.
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Welcome to Mayo Connect, I hope you find it helpful and supportive.
I am sure your full of questions and anxiety. Many members have beem in same situation your in.
On Connect you can read comments from oldest to newest, or sort from newest to oldest.
Which Mayo location are you going to? Do you have to travel far?
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3 ReactionsDiagnosed with stage 4 gallbladder cancer.
I have my first appointment with the oncologist at Mayo.
I’m having a hard time finding support.
Is anyone still here?
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1 ReactionCan someone comment if they had inflammation of spleen when diagnosed?
Not yet my cancer is very slow going and my oncologist said to wait , We also send my cancer and blood for molecular screening
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2 ReactionsI have been on this regimen since June 29, 2023. I am on a 3-week cycle, chemo on the first day of the first 2 weeks and off the 3rd week. I only get the Imfinzi once on that cycle. I had a scan after 4 cycles and the size of the tumor was "relatively unchanged". However, the good news is that I have been able to manage the side effects well which includes (for me), nausea feeling, fatigue, loss of appetite and constipation.
You can manage the side effects by reading up and by trial and error to see what works and what does not. If your tumor is growing, you should not wait! Hope this helps.
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2 Reactions@johnny2053, I'm tagging @waflanders to make sure they saw your question. I believe @alie @edie78t @lovingwifeterry also had treatment with gemcitabine and cisplatin plus durvalumab and may be able to share their experiences.
Johnny, did you decide to go ahead with treatment? How are you doing?