Fear of the Unknown
My boyfriend was diagnosed with Stage 2A lung cancer. His first chemo treatment was scheduled for today (as I'm typing). The fear of his treatment kept him from sleeping last night, he's been nauseated all morning, had horrible dreams last night and said that if we went to the appointment, he would probably get out of the vehicle somewhere along the route. He said there was no way that he could even go into the office.
He lost is twin sister in January to lung cancer and has had a really hard time with her passing.
Is this type of fear common when starting chemo treatments? Just trying to give him words of encouragement!
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@shellfinder, I'm relieved to hear that he's started treatment. Sometimes it takes us a bit to process what's happening and to get on board with the reality of what's needed for us to get better. It won't be easy, but that first step was huge for both of you. Wishing him much success! Communicating with his team about side effects will be important. It's been a few days, is he feeling ok after that first treatment?
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1 ReactionThank You for checking in on him, and he has actually had very little side effects. He did say he felt really soar (kinda like you feel with the flu), but they said he would. I believe it's from the immunotherapy treatment, but he's been taking the Clairatin and seems to be feeling a little better. He's still eating and drinking and no nausea so far. Next treatment will be the 26th. Hopefully, he will do just as good as he is now. He sees his Oncologist on that day also, right after his blood work... then treatment.
Thanks again for checking on him.
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3 ReactionsI'm glad he's started treatment and that it went so well @shellfinder - hugs to you both 🙂
@shellfinder, good news! I'm glad to hear he's started treatment and is doing OK so far with chemo. If your doctors haven't already told you, chemo is cumulative. I only had a couple of tired days after my first round. By the fourth, I was still a bit groggy the 3rd day following the treatment. Not enough to stop me from working full time, but I knew I didn't have my A-game that day. And I never did have any nausea.
I know people's reactions vary with the chemo drugs, age, general health, and other factors. They are not all the same. I have the EGFR mutation, so I had the platinum-based chemo drugs: Carboplatin and Alimta (Pemetrexed). I was 58 back then, ate healthy (mostly Mediterranean diet), and was physically active. My doctor said that all helped.
You should also let your brother know that I, too, was diagnosed at Stage 2b seven years ago. Despite my lung cancer metastasizing to my brain two years later, I'm still doing well: working full-time, doing some traveling, gardening, etc. Lung cancer treatments have come a long way in the last 15 years or so, and keep getting better.
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4 ReactionsCongratulations on a successful journey and treatment!
LOL, he's my boyfriend... not my brother. 🙂 All is good tho!
He is doing the carboplatin and another drug, different from yours, but is doing great so far.
He is turning 60 in October so it is good to know that you were older when you got your diagnosis. Charlie has had 7 heart attacks with a bypass on the last. His overall health is good considering his heart and now the ugly "C"!!!
I will definitely share your journey with him. It should inspire him to continue his treatment plan and go forward.
Thank You for reaching out.
Sincerely,
Sylvia
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