My nine year old is struggling with encopesis, or lack of control of bowel movements. He also has some anxiety. I've tried laxatives, but they seem to make the problem worse. He is a VERY picky eater and I don't know how to add fiber to his diet. He tries to hide the problem and I know he is embarrassed about it. I hate to see him get teased because he stinks when he is playing with friends/cousins. I've tried to get him to have a regular bathroom schedule, but he is very stubborn about it. Any suggestions? Who has had success with this problem?