Distended abdomen

Posted by laylaa @laylaa, Apr 11, 2020

Hi everyone,
I'm hoping you could help me with a problem I've been dealing with since a very early age, for as long as I can remember.
The problem is : I have a distended abdomen, really distended, it makes me look pregnant. The thing is, I always had this stomach, at fist when I was young I thought (as my mum told me) that it was a baby belly and it would go away, the problem is that it never did. I'm now 25 years old and always with the distended abdomen, though I'm not really fat (I do have minor weight fluctuations, but the stomach always stuck with me even when I underweight) , I also have a very active work, and I don't drive so usually I walk a lot during the day (present situation excluded) .
Usually ( around 90% of the time) I contract my stomach, and it looks flat, I do have some fat in it, it isn't top model flat but it is flat. For obvious reasons I cannot do it when I'm sleeping which is pretty much the only time I let go, or if I'm laying on my stomach. I've also discovered that if I'm standing and I try to let go and not contract my abdomen anymore I start to feel very dizzy very quickly, as if my heart beat got slower and the air couldn't get it. As an addition to that sometimes (I wouldn't say often but not rarely neither) I experience a shooting pain in the area around my ribs everytime I breathe, and more often that not I feel like air is getting properly to my lungs, when I take a deep breath specially.
I've already told doctors about this two symptoms ( except for the distended stomach which I know I should have ) but they've concluded I was too stressed out, although it is sometimes true, it isn't always the case.This is a big issue for me, and couldn't even talk about it with no one, I'm sincerely hoping to find answers here.
I think I shared all the important details with you, thank you for reading me and for your help.

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@marthalucinda

I have been to a gastroenterologist, urologist (I have kidney stone issues) and a gynecologist. Over a month ago my stomach started to swell after I ate a lot of fresh vegetables from a farmer’s market. I am a very clean person. The urologist eliminated kidney issues and the GYN dr. eliminated the possibility of fibroids, as causes for the stomach enlargement. I get tired more than usual, have backaches by the afternoon, but regular digestive and elimination processes. The only thing I can now think my problem is either diverticulitis or a parasite/worm in my stomach from the veggies. I had terrible stomach pains before my stomach swelled. I went on a diet the gastroenterologist suggested with no success. Thank you for any help.

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Thank you, Rosemary, for the information. I am caregiver to my 90-year old father and manager of our home /cook/secretary etc. and do not have time for any journal. I always take an index card with me to the doctor’s. I think my problem is liver related because of my going to the bathroom at least 8 times in a 24-hour period which is unusual for me. I have no idea why my problem may be liver related, but I think I’ve eliminated everything else which could match my symptoms. I have read Mayo Clinic’s articles on liver issues. Take care.

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@marthalucinda

I have been to a gastroenterologist, urologist (I have kidney stone issues) and a gynecologist. Over a month ago my stomach started to swell after I ate a lot of fresh vegetables from a farmer’s market. I am a very clean person. The urologist eliminated kidney issues and the GYN dr. eliminated the possibility of fibroids, as causes for the stomach enlargement. I get tired more than usual, have backaches by the afternoon, but regular digestive and elimination processes. The only thing I can now think my problem is either diverticulitis or a parasite/worm in my stomach from the veggies. I had terrible stomach pains before my stomach swelled. I went on a diet the gastroenterologist suggested with no success. Thank you for any help.

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@marthalucinda

Please do not take offense… All of this is written because I care and wish to understand so I might can offer you help.

I assume your trips to the bathroom is bowel movements.. correct? No matter… you have at least 8 opportunities to write in a journal or notes. You can make time no matter how busy your day is…. I know. .. been there done that. I had to make time to take care of me so I could take care of my mama… hard lesson to learn.

I was a caretaker of my 92 year old mother… along with my regular household duties, being a helpmate to my husband, and taking care of mama's dog. It all does take a lot of time. It is also very stressful. Even though it took a toll on my body to take care of my mama I don't regret it for a bit.

More than likely you have a digestive track disorder… maybe from, parasite, infection or bacteria, maybe stress, maybe from lack of not eating properly even though you are following a diet. I cannot eat much at a time and sometimes I forgot to eat enough often when taking care of my mama. As I lost weight I realized I had to take care of me better.

I had a note pad and jotted down… just a few sentences while in the bathroom, those very few minutes I had to myself in the morning, and before bed. You can make time for notes. Then take time to summarize your notes on the computer… I have an ipad and used the Note app. I print off two copies… one for me and one for my doctor… he kept taking my notes from my hands.. so this worked best for me. He wrote notes on his paper and I on mine. More than likely I would not be able to read his notes.

Sometimes when we eat .. especially as caretakers… we don't think about how we eat. You may be following the diet but are you eating properly? Are you taking small bites or big bites… are you chewing well before swallowing… are you using a straw which can cause you to swallow air are you drinking a lot of coffee or carbonated beverages… are you eating a lot of fibrous foods? There is a difference in high fiber and fibrous. Fibrous is stringy foods like celery, broccoli, greens and citrus fruits. These along with Raw fruits and vegetables can cause distention of the belly.

Other than reading articles about liver issues why do you think you have a liver problem? What other symptoms do you have? Have you had an endoscopy and colonoscopy? CT or MRI scan? Any other tests ??
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ZeeGe

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@marthalucinda

Please do not take offense… All of this is written because I care and wish to understand so I might can offer you help.

I assume your trips to the bathroom is bowel movements.. correct? No matter… you have at least 8 opportunities to write in a journal or notes. You can make time no matter how busy your day is…. I know. .. been there done that. I had to make time to take care of me so I could take care of my mama… hard lesson to learn.

I was a caretaker of my 92 year old mother… along with my regular household duties, being a helpmate to my husband, and taking care of mama's dog. It all does take a lot of time. It is also very stressful. Even though it took a toll on my body to take care of my mama I don't regret it for a bit.

More than likely you have a digestive track disorder… maybe from, parasite, infection or bacteria, maybe stress, maybe from lack of not eating properly even though you are following a diet. I cannot eat much at a time and sometimes I forgot to eat enough often when taking care of my mama. As I lost weight I realized I had to take care of me better.

I had a note pad and jotted down… just a few sentences while in the bathroom, those very few minutes I had to myself in the morning, and before bed. You can make time for notes. Then take time to summarize your notes on the computer… I have an ipad and used the Note app. I print off two copies… one for me and one for my doctor… he kept taking my notes from my hands.. so this worked best for me. He wrote notes on his paper and I on mine. More than likely I would not be able to read his notes.

Sometimes when we eat .. especially as caretakers… we don't think about how we eat. You may be following the diet but are you eating properly? Are you taking small bites or big bites… are you chewing well before swallowing… are you using a straw which can cause you to swallow air are you drinking a lot of coffee or carbonated beverages… are you eating a lot of fibrous foods? There is a difference in high fiber and fibrous. Fibrous is stringy foods like celery, broccoli, greens and citrus fruits. These along with Raw fruits and vegetables can cause distention of the belly.

Other than reading articles about liver issues why do you think you have a liver problem? What other symptoms do you have? Have you had an endoscopy and colonoscopy? CT or MRI scan? Any other tests ??
.
ZeeGe

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I know you mean no offense. I thought this Mayo Clinic Connect was an outlet where people who have had similar symptoms share their results. I think I mentioned that I now know my problem is not digestive. And I go to the bathroom many times to urinate. Not to offend you, but I believe no one can suggest I have time to do what anyone else does and make a journal. That is something I will not do. I’m getting a lot of unsolicited advice from people on this blog. They do not know me or my body. Thank you for taking the time to help.

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@marthalucinda

I know you mean no offense. I thought this Mayo Clinic Connect was an outlet where people who have had similar symptoms share their results. I think I mentioned that I now know my problem is not digestive. And I go to the bathroom many times to urinate. Not to offend you, but I believe no one can suggest I have time to do what anyone else does and make a journal. That is something I will not do. I’m getting a lot of unsolicited advice from people on this blog. They do not know me or my body. Thank you for taking the time to help.

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@marthalucinda

I am a plain speaker and I speak so to help you. Not to offend you.

I only told you what most medical articles tell you.. but elaborated a bit on it… Be Prepared for your doctor appointment. Write your symptoms down. .. what triggers them, makes them worse, makes them better. Write questions for your doctor. Those are the things that will help with your diagnosis. I tell everyone this… because it is extremely important. Be active in your health… make time to be healthy.

Many people here share some of your symptoms. I have had some of them, but None had anything to do with my liver.

I still do not know what test you've had that have lead you to believe it is your liver that is the problem nor which liver problem you think you have. Have you had blood test? CT scan? other tests of the liver or other parts of your body? With what results? Do you have jaundice? Do you have fatty liver?

I shared with you my experiences of being a caretaker. That it can take a toll on the body. You will forget things from being exhausted. .. so writing your symptoms down… which you have written very little of what they are here. So makes it hard to share similar symptoms when you don't know what all of yours are.

My grandma wondered most of her life why her “belly” (as she called it) was so big… she said she looked like she was pregnant. She was born in 1888 and died in 1972 of a bowel blockage. I too have had the big belly, but have lost it with all the abdominal surgeries I had and the change of eating habits.

The digestive system involves the liver, gallbladder, pancreas, esophagus, stomach and intestinal track. So you see it can be any of these. Female organs can also play a part in abdominal distention. The more you share the more people her can share.

Have you tried searching this site by using the spy glass 🔍 at the top of the page to search for other conversations that might help you?

I think I have shared all I can share from what little you have given us.

Best of Luck!
ZeeGee

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