Can’t get an rheumatology appt

I more than likely have what killed my mom. However I also have at least one other possibly multiple autoimmune diseases. Have positive ssa and >8 sjogrens. My mom had polymyositis and ild. They didn’t catch it in time. So I’m trying to be proactive and get help before it’s too late. Mayo ra dept is saying because I don’t have a rash or constant inflammation they refuse to see me. I’m in rural ga. They told me to fly to nyc. I can’t do that. Jacksonville is close to me. Plus all of the rheumatologists around me are either not taking new patients or scheduling out until may to July. I’m afraid if I wait tgat long it will be too late. With these diseases if you wait until you have debilitating constant pain there’s usually very little hope of survival. I also am having some kind of epileptic like attacks only when slerr er ping and bp 90/57 and heart rate going below 50. How do I convince them to see me? I take care of myself, eat paleo I’m not eating processed junk and am not obese. Plus this is probably genetic for several generations which would be a great research opportunity