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@sepdvm
Thank you very much for this encouraging reply.
May I ask what were your husband‘s l treatments to be cancer free now.
I am in Chapel Hill at the Lineberger Cancer at UNC. Where would I potentially go for a second opinion?

Hello @hummelb99. Sorry that you need to be a part of this group. My husband has been on this bladder cancer journey for 6 years. His urothelial cell carcinoma was highly aggressive and muscle invasive so it kept recurring. He was a BCG failure, Keytruda failure, but did not have the options available even now so chose surgery with bladder removal and neobladder. He is cancer free now. You will have more treatment options with non muscle invasive tumor, but the darn things like to keep coming back. You have been through a lot already. Just know that it never hurts to ask for a referral for a second opinion at a larger cancer center, if needed. Be strong. You can get through this.

@141emp
Thank you and that is the reason I decided to join the group, to learn more about the latest treatments and exchanging information.

@hummelb99 welcome to this great group. I have different type of bladder cancer and find it to be a good source of reliable information, advice and support.

I am 82 years old, and have recently been diagnosed with high risk non-muscle invasive bladder cancer.
The Vesta lab reported that I am not a candidate for BCG.
I have had 1 treatment of chemo with gemcitabine/docetaxel and shall have 5 more with 1week intervals.
A cystoscope after 3 months to see if the treatment was successful.
Before I received the diagnosis, I labored 1 year with UTIs, lots of pain and was always told I had overactive bladder. I went for acupuncture, pelvic PT and took 6 different antibiotics during the year.
Had 17 Abdominal Urine Analysis - all the same - blood and protein,
4 CT Scans showing fluid around the kidney, MRI w/contrast, Ultrasound w/nuclear meds, 2 cystoscopes and 1 biopsy, which showed 2 kinds of cancer and diagnosed with urothelial carcinoma of the bladder.
I still have not fully internalized that I have cancer and will have to be treated the rest of my life.
I have never belonged to a support group but hope to communicate with women with similar cancer.

Hello @believe11, I am sorry that you and your mother are facing this diagnosis. My husband was diagnosed at age 65 with this similar and muscle invasive cancer. After surgery to remove the bladder diverticulum where the primary tumor was, as well as many lymph nodes, all but one were clear, he had chemo then BCG and monitoring with cystoscopy every 3 months. The frequent recurrence after two years pushed him to undergo radical cystectomy with neobladder looking for the cure. There are more medical options for treatment now than when he was initially treated. He tolerated the chemotherapy and bladder infusions well with minimal side effects. The surgeries were tough and recovery slow and difficult. If I were addressing this issue at a more advanced age such as your mother is, I would be considering her level of health and mobility and whether she could tolerate regular anesthesia for TURBTS as needed, or a big surgery like bladder removal. I might lean toward more conservative measures with medical treatment aimed at control. Many people live many years with regular TURBTS to control their bladder cancer, but they may have a less aggressive type of cancer. Your medical team should help with determining what her current health will tolerate in treatments. Always consider a second opinion at a large referral center if at all possible.

My mother 88 year-old was just diagnosed with pathologic T1 high grade urothelial carcinoma of the bladder.
Any tips?

Thank you! Well done!

This week's member spotlight features a member of the Bladder Cancer group who many of you have crossed paths with. Learn more about @jaxfl, his bladder cancer journey, as well as some behind the scenes things you may not know like his hobby of tinkering on vintage computers, and why he eats his fries with mayonaise. 🙂

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@colleenyoung yes, of course. But we are also interested in gaining an understanding of the opinions and experiences of patients as well.