My young granddaughter's K-garten teacher, at the end of the year, told her parents that she saw some signs of possible mild Asbergers and she felt the child should be tested. Well, they "read about it on line" and also "talked to her Pediatrician" (who probably sees her for 15 min. every few months), and decided she was fine. Well, she is not fine. She is absolutely wild, and no matter what I do, I cannot connect with her. Her little brother? No problem .... he sits with me, reads, giggles, and is just playfully connected. He's a sweetheart. But, with my granddaughter, no success at all. It is as if I am a table sitting in the corner. I am afraid they are making a big mistake by not getting her tested, even if there is nothing there, it would be worth it. At the very least I am sure she is anxious and has ADHD.