Adenocarcinoma NSC Lung Cancer Stage 3. Advice? Success stories?

Posted by detroitmom23 @detroitmom23, Feb 7, 2023

I recently found out that I have stage 3 adenocarcinoma NSCLC with mass in lung and spread to lymph nodes in neck, they want to do four rounds of chemo and if shrunk enough possibly radiation afterwards. I have asked them not to give me a prognosis because my fragile mind can’t handle it.
My first chemo treatment is tomorrow and I’m a nervous wreck. Any advice on getting through it?
Any success stories would be SO welcome right now.

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@millie5737

My husband also has stage IV meaning it metastasized to his other lung, in other words both lungs. PetScan showed no other spreading, this was done in Sept. He has just completed 4 rounds of chemo & immunotherapy. Very few side effects, other than lots of sleep.

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Pixie dust
My husband had 4 rounds of Carboplatin, Alimtz, and Keytruda. The Keytruda may have given him inflamation in his lungs so he was put on heavy doses of steroids, and round 5 he had only Alimtz. Then another CT, still indicating inflamation. was due for round 6 today but due to continued inflamation, no treatment, advised to contact his pulmonologist before they proceed with further treatment.

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@frouke

I understand why the doctors stage cancer but it’s not something we should think about. I’ve been treated twice for stage 1 lung cancer in the last two years and felt I was in a reasonable good place. A few days before my treatment the surgeon kept saying that another nodule is going to turn malignant so I said take it out but he said no without explanation. I could reasonably guess my lungs are not in good shape with the added problem of COPD. So if I have more reoccurrences I won’t get surgery anymore. What really upsets me is that he said we’re trying to get you to 73, I’m turning 72 soon. People have consistently shown that these numbers are not definitive, look how many people live well past their projections. All I can add to this is that his comments had a very bad effect on me, it’s in God’s hands amen.

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Find a better Oncologist. I'm lucky that my superpower appears to be picking really great doctors. Keep looking. They're out there. After my brain surgery to remove my metastatic lung cancer, I went to MD Anderson for a second opinion. They told me no need to come back. My doctors did everything they would have done, and I should listen to them. I do! My Oncologist knows I don't want to know the odds, and he rarely mentions the numbers. Still, it's my choice to ignore them. I plan to live forever, or die trying!

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I've had Stage 4 metastatic lung cancer for over 2 years now. Mine metastasized to a part of my brain that controls nerves on the right side of my body and coordination between the two sides. I practice the Hans Solo approach, "Never tell me the odds!" Sure, my Oncologist sometimes tells me the numbers, but I don't focus on them. I don't care what the survival rate is, I'll set the upper end of the curve. Just watch me! Regular physical therapy has, and still does, help my body deal with the changes. I work full time, walk my dog, and still enjoy judging and eating BBQ as well as doing yard work. Find someone who uses a number of modalities to address biomechanical dysfunction. Some PTs use the same approach for everything. Avoid those.

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@millie5737

My husband also has stage IV meaning it metastasized to his other lung, in other words both lungs. PetScan showed no other spreading, this was done in Sept. He has just completed 4 rounds of chemo & immunotherapy. Very few side effects, other than lots of sleep.

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Day three after chemo and just very fatigued and emotional. I think the hardest part is the emotional stress.

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@katiesue

I thought one of the definitions of Stage IV is that the cancer has metastasized. ???

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My husband also has stage IV meaning it metastasized to his other lung, in other words both lungs. PetScan showed no other spreading, this was done in Sept. He has just completed 4 rounds of chemo & immunotherapy. Very few side effects, other than lots of sleep.

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I understand why the doctors stage cancer but it’s not something we should think about. I’ve been treated twice for stage 1 lung cancer in the last two years and felt I was in a reasonable good place. A few days before my treatment the surgeon kept saying that another nodule is going to turn malignant so I said take it out but he said no without explanation. I could reasonably guess my lungs are not in good shape with the added problem of COPD. So if I have more reoccurrences I won’t get surgery anymore. What really upsets me is that he said we’re trying to get you to 73, I’m turning 72 soon. People have consistently shown that these numbers are not definitive, look how many people live well past their projections. All I can add to this is that his comments had a very bad effect on me, it’s in God’s hands amen.

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@katiesue

After awhile I learned to embrace the treatment effects. They didn’t last that long. Keep a diary or a checklist and you may start seeing a pattern. The steroids made me feel energized at first and then I knew I’d be spending a few days on the couch barely eating. So I had my cream of wheat and bananas; soup and crackers at the ready. Easy reading ( books I’d already read and loved so it would be easy to focus), and my favorite movies so if I fell asleep I wouldn’t miss anything. I got rid of any guilt I might feel for just staying low for a few days. Then gradually work myself out of it again until I was back to normal. ( Knowing I was going to have to do it all over again I three weeks)

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Thanks for the tips on coping. Today is the first day after first chemo treatment- not the worst but not the best. Been pretty emotional all day - looking at the laundry that needs to be done, feeling guilty about not cooking dinner, etc etc and feeling bad that my husband who has a pretty intense job has to deal with all this too. Appetite good today, forcing myself to drink as much as I can, but feeling a little shaky and trembling off and on. I just feel like I have nothing to look forward to each day… I’m hoping to find some joy again, somewhere somehow. I know that I need to let go of the guilt for not feeling good or being productive. Maybe I just need to be more accepting of days like this and expect it . Like the idea of turning on old movies I’ve seen before so I don’t have to feel like I need to stay awake to not miss something.
Love to all who are going through this ❤️

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@katiesue

I thought one of the definitions of Stage IV is that the cancer has metastasized. ???

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Just what I was told.

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@detroitmom23

First day of chemo went better than I expected . Just a long day.,, started with getting bloodwork done. Then met with Nurse Practitioner to discuss any pain or anxiety symptoms I’m experiencing and made recommendations. Then met with RN. Who went over all potential side effects I could have from chemo, VERY COMPASSIONATE professionals. Luckily the type of chemo I’m having has fewest side effects. But they are ultra proactive about preventing side effects too, steroids for 3 days surrounding chemo, anti nausea pills for home , anti nausea medication in IV. Also a vitamin B 12 injection to help combat fatigue. Nurse was very good about convincing me to stay optimistic. Said she has patients who were diagnosed at stage 4 and still doing well at 10 year mark, That was really good to hear. Very understanding that some days will be good some days not but to keep my eye on the end results. Emphasized nutrition, rest and exercise. Also said I should rinse my mouth with water, baking soda and salt 6 times a day starting immediately to prevent canker scores. Going into the infusion room was stressful. The surroundings were well appointed but I felt so overwhelmed that I needed to be there. They had a little trouble getting IV in which sucked but after that it went well, 10 min drip of one drug and 30 min drip of second drug and it was over. I felt nothing while they were infusing it. The only thing I still have hanging over my head is the side effects that are sure to come. Hopefully they will be manageable. All I can say at this point is a big shout out to the doctors and nurses at University of Michigan hospital cancer center in Ann Arbor. Their compassion is truly remarkable.

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After awhile I learned to embrace the treatment effects. They didn’t last that long. Keep a diary or a checklist and you may start seeing a pattern. The steroids made me feel energized at first and then I knew I’d be spending a few days on the couch barely eating. So I had my cream of wheat and bananas; soup and crackers at the ready. Easy reading ( books I’d already read and loved so it would be easy to focus), and my favorite movies so if I fell asleep I wouldn’t miss anything. I got rid of any guilt I might feel for just staying low for a few days. Then gradually work myself out of it again until I was back to normal. ( Knowing I was going to have to do it all over again I three weeks)

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