A Summary of My Multiple Myeloma

Posted by Heather McFarland @heathermcfarland, Jul 28, 2023

Diagnosis

I was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma on Sept 28, 2022 (age 53). My diagnosis was a result of visiting my general practitioner for the first time post-covid complaining of general fatigue (shortness of breath and high heart rate when exerting). I had been trying to get into hiking shape all summer and wasn't making my usual progress. Given headlines in the news I was self-diagnosing myself with long covid. My doctor suggested that we do a blood panel since it had been a while since we had done one. The panel came back with abnormalities including the fact that I was very anemic (thus the fatigue) and she suggested that she share the results with an oncologist colleague to get her input. The oncologist asked that I come in the following week (not a great sign). And before my visit, through the beauty of Google, using my blood work results, I had narrowed it down to either Multiple Myeloma or Lymphoma. I wouldn't recommend going that route as it's a lot to stew on by yourself… My biggest takeaway is that my gp deserves an award! I've since read many accounts of people who aren't diagnosed for months or even years. I got a jump on it due to her diligence!

Initial Treatment

I was treated at St Vincent (Providence) in Portland, OR from October - February which included weekly visits to get lenalidomide, dexamethasone, daratumumab and also took (oral) revlimid at home. Treatment was fairly well tolerated with my main symptom being brain fog and fatigue. Treatment was successful bringing my Myeloma numbers down significantly. At the time of diagnosis, I had a few small 'shadows' of bone deterioration on my vertebrae that disappeared after the initial treatment.

Autologous Transplant

I had my transplant at OHSU in Portland, OR on March 15th. The prep started on March 4th with self-injections of Zarxio to promote stem cell generation, on March 7th had the trifusion catheter placed in my chest, and then 5 hours of harvesting on March 8th (got enough for 2 transplants in one go). On March 14th I had the first of two chemo (Melphalin) infusions as an outpatient and then on March 15h I had the second dose and was admitted for 16 days.

My main side effects while in the hospital post-treatment were major nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Needless to say, my GI did not like Melphalin. I lost about 20 lbs and wasn't able to keep food down for weeks. I had sucked on popsicles while getting Melphalin and I didn't get mouth sores. The first few days in the hospital I experienced major anxiety while waiting for the chemo symptoms to arrive. I don't love hospitals and I think the isolation and anticipation of side effects all contributed to my severe reaction. This took me by surprise since up to this point I had been able to take the diagnosis and initial treatment in stride and be fairly optimistic. I credit family and friends who visited and kept me distracted (thank goodness for March Madness!) as well as the very thoughtful and capable staff at OHSU (and some good anxiety drugs) for helping me get through that experience.

Post Transplant

Home again! Nothing like that feeling… The first 30 days at home being immunocompromised meant that there was very little that I could do by myself but I was very lucky to have 3 caregivers who stayed with me for that time to share in cleaning, pet care, gardening, food prep along with monitoring my condition, taking me to appointments etc... They managed to share the load such that they were able to keep a fairly normal remote work schedule as well as care for me and keep the house running. Part of taking care of the caregivers included having another friend volunteer to coordinate a Meal Train to deliver food periodically for them while they prepared my food under strict guidelines. I didn't have any particular complications with recovery. My appetite was very slow to return. My GI took months to recover and my sense of taste is still a bit affected four months later. My brain fog has continued to improve (especially being challenged as I'm back at work) but I can tell that my memory - specifically my ability to recall words, names etc… in the moment - hasn't fully recovered.

The exciting part is that it worked! After 3 months we rebase-lined (bone marrow biopsy, PET scan, blood work) and I'm officially in remission with no detectable cancer. It's been 4.5 months and I feel great. I'm back to an active lifestyle and back in the garden (it was very hard to be away from that for 3 months, in the spring no less).

Maintenance

I started a low dose of Revlimid (10 mg) at the beginning of July and am tolerating it well (I think I might have minor mouth sores related to it but so far that's all that I've really noticed). I will check in with my oncologist monthly for the foreseeable future.

Gratitude

I am the luckiest unlucky person I know. I have had amazing support from friends, family and medical professionals. I am privileged and have access to excellent healthcare (local experts and heath insurance covered by my employer). I had access to short and long term disability allowing me to be away from work without financial impact. I am young for this diagnosis and healthy otherwise without comorbidities. I have this disease at a time when medical research is at its height and am very optimistic about its future - go science! And given that this disease is twice as common and twice as deadly in underserved populations I'm focused on using my privilege for advocacy going forward. My thoughts go out to all of my fellow patients, hoping for some measure of the support that I've received.

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I’m sorry I don’t know where to go to ask questions, find help, or anything really. In the last 48 hours I spent every minute on google and found it’s only scared me into mental exhaustion. I’m 45 and was just told something about I’d went from 0.2% to 3% of something with something else at 10%….I’m sorry I have no clue what this means and never had an idea I was this sick. Would someone please point me to the best place for multiple myeloma information and providers and hospitals. Or am I to late and best enjoy my time

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@jadams4197 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect! @auntieoakley is right about there being so many things to consider while you research this condition! She is a gem and oh! so knowledgeable in this.

Multiple Myeloma has several different types and the treatments can vary widely. Please do not go down a rabbit hole of using Dr. Google! Your situation is similar to others, but unique to you. A good hematologist-oncologist will take into account not only your multiple myeloma, but any other health condition you are living with, to help trailer a treatment plan that will work best for you.

For today, take a deep breath. Grab a cup of tea and a couple of cookies, and relax. Can you try that?
Ginger

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@jadams4197 It is never too late to treat myeloma, there are a ton of tools to treat this cancer. There are two links in this email, the first one is a page here on connect where you can connect with other folks who were newly diagnosed.
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/multiple-myeloma-bone-marrow/
My husband was diagnosed with very advanced disease and was much older than you are, and he has been living with this for over 15 years and his quality of life has been mostly good.
The second link is for the International Myeloma Foundation.
https://www.myeloma.org/multiple-myeloma/multiple-myeloma-diagnosis
This link is for the newly diagnosed, and the place where we found all the best information when he was first diagnosed.
The best piece of advice I can give, is to get informed, find out what your test results are exactly and start reading, while you wait for the next test.
The second best advice I can give is find a doctor who treats a lot of myeloma or get a consult at a larger cancer center or university if possible.
Have you had your bone marrow biopsy confirmation yet?

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I’m sorry I don’t know where to go to ask questions, find help, or anything really. In the last 48 hours I spent every minute on google and found it’s only scared me into mental exhaustion. I’m 45 and was just told something about I’d went from 0.2% to 3% of something with something else at 10%….I’m sorry I have no clue what this means and never had an idea I was this sick. Would someone please point me to the best place for multiple myeloma information and providers and hospitals. Or am I to late and best enjoy my time

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What is the MM diet?
Why is it different than other cancer diets?

I have SMM at this time with numbers getting higher each blood test. Every 3 months.

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I am SMM too ! I've been smoldering since September 2024. How long have you been smoldering?
I will google the Integrated Oncology for MM as stated above
Also have you used the Pangea calculator by Dana Farber ? It calculates your percentage yearly from MGUS or SMM.

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What is the MM diet?
Why is it different than other cancer diets?

I have SMM at this time with numbers getting higher each blood test. Every 3 months.

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I would love to know about your new diet. Can you give just a brief summary?

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Synthesis Clinic, Reading UK
They have a nutritionist by the name of Korina who is a consultant working on their behalf from Athens. She is a lymphoma survivor - seven years I believe or so?
If you google Integrative Oncology you will find many US resources. sites, drs., etc.
The MM diet is specific to MM. Different than other anti-cancer diets. Good luck!

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My partner is 71 and only just received diagnosis of MM in May of this year (26).
He is in round two of chemo and is scheduled to have Autologous BMT end of January. He was a very fit man and skied @ 50 mph and cycled 60 - 80 miles per day!

We are hoping he has the same repoonse as you Heather! Wow what a positive outcome after. gruelling experience.
I hope you have a forever remission!
I wanted to share the idea of pursuing Integrative Oncology with you; we have changed diets 100% now and have a well trained nutritionist - who is also a lymphoma survivor. She had the same BMT eight years back and is still in remission. She is completed committed to her anti-cancer diet! You may want to do some research in this area as it very popular in the U.S. (We are in the UK.)
Lovely to read your story, very hopeful for us.

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I would love to know about your new diet. Can you give just a brief summary?

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My partner is 71 and only just received diagnosis of MM in May of this year (26).
He is in round two of chemo and is scheduled to have Autologous BMT end of January. He was a very fit man and skied @ 50 mph and cycled 60 - 80 miles per day!

We are hoping he has the same repoonse as you Heather! Wow what a positive outcome after. gruelling experience.
I hope you have a forever remission!
I wanted to share the idea of pursuing Integrative Oncology with you; we have changed diets 100% now and have a well trained nutritionist - who is also a lymphoma survivor. She had the same BMT eight years back and is still in remission. She is completed committed to her anti-cancer diet! You may want to do some research in this area as it very popular in the U.S. (We are in the UK.)
Lovely to read your story, very hopeful for us.

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Thank You for sharing your story! My husband was just diagnosed with Kidney Failure, extremely anemic and Multiple Myeloma.
Waiting for appts to have biopsy on kidney and bone marrow; plus access point inserted to do dialysis. I was curious on what treatments to start and appreciate your candor.Praying we can do everything we can to fight this and recover. 🙏

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@bcamilla74 That's a lot to have happen in a short time, isn't it? I am a multiple myeloma patient, and also on dialysis for end stage kidney disease. My kidney disease is not related to the myeloma.

Rather than put down a lot of words here right now that may not make a lot of sense to you, tell me what you are looking for, how I may help you out with concerns, please! If you wander over to the kidney and bladder support group, you will find a couple of discussions about peritoneal dialysis. Is this what they are considering for your husband?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/dialysis-stories-and-questions/ is one of them!
Ginger

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Thank You for sharing your story! My husband was just diagnosed with Kidney Failure, extremely anemic and Multiple Myeloma.
Waiting for appts to have biopsy on kidney and bone marrow; plus access point inserted to do dialysis. I was curious on what treatments to start and appreciate your candor.Praying we can do everything we can to fight this and recover. 🙏

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