A question came to mind regarding hope.

Posted by joybo99 @joybo99, May 2 6:13pm

Because feeling "hopeful" has been associated with living longer, I was curious if the absence of hope would have the opposite effect, i.e., shortening a life.
Then I found this article which may interest others.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5552440/#:~:text=Results,respectively%20(P%20%3D%200.002).

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@samcal9977zz

Hope is the thing with feathers

- by Emily Dickinson

Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all,

And sweetest in the gale is heard;
And sore must be the storm
That could abash the little bird
That kept so many warm.

I've heard it in the chillest land,
And on the strangest sea;
Yet, never, in extremity,
It asked a crumb of me.

This poem is in the public domain.

Emily Dickinson

(I LOVE Emily Dickinson)

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What a sweet surprise to find in this platform!
Thanks

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@samcal9977zz

Hope is the thing with feathers

- by Emily Dickinson

Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all,

And sweetest in the gale is heard;
And sore must be the storm
That could abash the little bird
That kept so many warm.

I've heard it in the chillest land,
And on the strangest sea;
Yet, never, in extremity,
It asked a crumb of me.

This poem is in the public domain.

Emily Dickinson

(I LOVE Emily Dickinson)

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I love her, too! I keep the first verse of it on my daily calendar and reread it often. It never fails to make me smile and feel a warm place in my heart!!
Thank you!!

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I recall Camus's book "The Plague" and lean on the understanding that all we have in life (period) is "Hope". There are no guarantees that exist from planning or prayer, for life has a way of interfering when we least expect it. Hope is personal, but not selfish. And I feel hope is the most positive variable I have in my personal arsenal of hopes, wishes, and desires. And like so many of us here at this group, I hope to survive on as little pain as possible so that I may hope to enjoy my end times, like my mother did.

My mother died from the infirmities of old age at 98 years 8 days. And she had a good mind close to the end, smiling and engaging in gentle conversations with a room full of family members. I can still remember that adorable, innocent, childlike smile on her face. She was ready to let go and went in peace.

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@mir123

This really interested me! Thanks for posting. I wonder if "hope" helps a person physically or maybe that hope is based on things being somewhat ok. What is your opinion? Do you feel we should focus more on being hopeful?

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I'm thinking perhaps the terms "hopeful" and "thankful" may be kissing cousins.

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@captboat

From personal experience, I am now 80 years old. I was raised by a single mother, one of four, I was the only boy. Mother was born in 1922 with an eighth grade education. I remember “hard-times”, including not having electricity or running water, and having little or no food. Interestingly, just this morning I was thinking of the word “clabber” , because that was one of the foods we ate when there was nothing else. I promise you hope was all we had and it was enough. Our “hope” was in the Lord Jesus Christ.

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Amen, and amen. Hope and thanks. They run together, don't they? Eternal life with Jesus is my hope, too.

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@cb3

I recall Camus's book "The Plague" and lean on the understanding that all we have in life (period) is "Hope". There are no guarantees that exist from planning or prayer, for life has a way of interfering when we least expect it. Hope is personal, but not selfish. And I feel hope is the most positive variable I have in my personal arsenal of hopes, wishes, and desires. And like so many of us here at this group, I hope to survive on as little pain as possible so that I may hope to enjoy my end times, like my mother did.

My mother died from the infirmities of old age at 98 years 8 days. And she had a good mind close to the end, smiling and engaging in gentle conversations with a room full of family members. I can still remember that adorable, innocent, childlike smile on her face. She was ready to let go and went in peace.

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Hope is voluntary.
Those who embrace it are blessed.

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@cb3

I recall Camus's book "The Plague" and lean on the understanding that all we have in life (period) is "Hope". There are no guarantees that exist from planning or prayer, for life has a way of interfering when we least expect it. Hope is personal, but not selfish. And I feel hope is the most positive variable I have in my personal arsenal of hopes, wishes, and desires. And like so many of us here at this group, I hope to survive on as little pain as possible so that I may hope to enjoy my end times, like my mother did.

My mother died from the infirmities of old age at 98 years 8 days. And she had a good mind close to the end, smiling and engaging in gentle conversations with a room full of family members. I can still remember that adorable, innocent, childlike smile on her face. She was ready to let go and went in peace.

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I appreciate reading comments that are positive and thought provoking. Now I will review the book “The Plague” and think of the word “hope” in a more
Ongoing way. Thank you for the post.

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@monamac

I appreciate reading comments that are positive and thought provoking. Now I will review the book “The Plague” and think of the word “hope” in a more
Ongoing way. Thank you for the post.

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You're welcome. Thank you for your uplifting comment.

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@cb3

I recall Camus's book "The Plague" and lean on the understanding that all we have in life (period) is "Hope". There are no guarantees that exist from planning or prayer, for life has a way of interfering when we least expect it. Hope is personal, but not selfish. And I feel hope is the most positive variable I have in my personal arsenal of hopes, wishes, and desires. And like so many of us here at this group, I hope to survive on as little pain as possible so that I may hope to enjoy my end times, like my mother did.

My mother died from the infirmities of old age at 98 years 8 days. And she had a good mind close to the end, smiling and engaging in gentle conversations with a room full of family members. I can still remember that adorable, innocent, childlike smile on her face. She was ready to let go and went in peace.

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I made a mistake. My mother lived to be 99 years 8 days. For a couple of years, I was mentally grooming her to be a centenarian. And she would say to me, "What do I want to live to be 100 for?" And I told her, "Because it's a huge accomplishment?" She was a good sport and kind of laughed through it all.

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Well, any negativity, and hopelessness is certainly that, will stimulate the brain chemistry in a negative way.

And that promotes illness, not health.

So, sure, hopelessness is definitely going to increase the chances of poor health.

Of course, there are so many other factors going on, that to create a direct link between hopelessness and shorter life, would be a very difficult endeavor.

But common sense is going to say...it certainly isn't going to help.

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