3rd opinion: How many opinions did you get for prostate cancer?

Posted by saralie67 @saralie67, Mar 29, 2023

My husband was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer. I think maybe stage four but I’m not sure. He has a 3+4 Gleason score 13 PSA he’s 54. He has of also rheumatoid arthritis and thyroid problems. His initial urologist recommended surgery he then sent us to a specialist who also recommended surgery because of his age and relative good health. I follow a Facebook group on this subject, and Majority of them recommend another opinion, so I don’t know I’m just curious what everyone else thinks. I’m told that because the guy we saw today was a surgeon that he would naturally recommend surgery which is kind of what my husband thinks but he said today that if my husband was to have radiation first and then down the line , come up with cancer again that he wouldn’t be able to do surgery so I don’t know we’ve got surgery scheduled but I’m just curious if anyone else has been through this particular scenario what your thoughts are etc. thank you

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michaelcharles | @michaelcharles | Mar 31, 2023

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PSA

michaelcharles | @michaelcharles | Mar 31, 2023

PSA

tlems | @tlems | Mar 31, 2023

I have to admit that reading the multiple responses is so much more help than some of the treatment options available. Having a better understanding of those that have dealt with this is way beyond helpful!

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philnob | @philnob | Apr 1, 2023

Hello,
When I was first diagnosed with prostate cancer my General Practitioner said
“Get rid of your prostate, it’s a gland”. At no time did my Oncologist ever recommend removing my prostate. I underwent radiation, and I am still on hormone therapy since 2016. When it was available, I met with men at my hospital for group discussions. One man said he had his prostate removed only to find out that the cancer had metastasized, and he would have to start hormone therapy with Lupron. I know it can be difficult to decide on the best path to take. Looking back, I am grateful to have had access to Doctors, and Nurses that are always available to monitor my care.
I wish your Husband the very best. Hang in there!

proftom2 | @proftom2 | Apr 2, 2023

There are many twists and turns in this prostate cancer journey were on. It can be mind-boggling. Three things I've learned to live by. (1) Always be your own best advocate. (2) Find an oncologist you feel comfortable with. (3) Find a medical facility that fits your prostate cancer medical needs.

hbp | @hbp | Apr 2, 2023

Good thinking proftom2. I have had RP, been on ADT and Erleada ( androgen receptor inhibitor), when do you think that it is appropriate to bring an oncologist into this equation? I am thinking to do so when the ADT and Erleada stop working had radiation and chemo is the next treatment

spryguy | @spryguy | Apr 2, 2023

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If were to start over I would begin w an oncologist. Urologist wants to do surgery and R.O. wants radiation. I am now seeing 2 Medical Oncologists and the guidance is whatever works for my particular condition. I did go thru 39 IMRT sessions before signing up w the M.Os. The principal M.O is at Mayo.
Good Luck

gkm | @gkm | Apr 2, 2023

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I thought the urologists were the gatekeepers. Your GP would normally refer you to an urologist for an initial consult. This would generally require a biopsy to determine whether you have cancer and your Gleason rating would determine the aggressiveness of the cancer. In most cases you will be put on active surveillance to monitor the cancer. When your Gleason score reaches 7 it is recommended that treatment is required. Yes, your urologist will generally recommend surgery, however, it is at that point that you should ask for a referral to a radiation oncologist to get their opinion. I didn't think that a medical oncologist would get involved until a later date when hormone therapy is recommended or required.