All the little things that people do have suddenly become important in day to day life, the person who opens the door for you, picks up the glove you dropped, says "have a nice day" and really seems to mean it. I thanked my friend for taking a walk with me. I don't really know if these things were happening all along or I just suddenly started to be aware of them. Wish I could say I was able to let all of the little stuff go. Not really there yet. This forum has really helped me so thanks to all who share, read and respond and for lots of great information. I learn from every story that is shared.