@lydia1975, I'd like to add my welcome. I see that your momma bear is rearing its head and you're fighting for your son. Here are a few options to consider. You may have tried them already.

I completely agree with @karukgirl and @rwinney. I hope you can talk to a hospital social worker. They are there to help you and can be your quarterback for finding financial assistance and supporting you as well as your son.

My Help Navigator may be able to help you find free or low cost social worker services and more, check out this website and search engine called "My Help Navigator". https://myhelpnavigator.auntbertha.com/

If you would like to look into getting care at Mayo Clinic, you can talk to his team about getting a physician referral or ask if they ever consult with Mayo Clinic experts. You can also submit a request for an appointment yourself. See more info here: http://mayocl.in/1mtmR63

- Insurance at Mayo Clinic https://www.mayoclinic.org/patient-visitor-guide/billing-insurance/insurance
- Charitable Care and Financial Assistance at Mayo Clinic https://www.mayoclinic.org/patient-visitor-guide/billing-insurance/financial-assistance

I bet this feels like everything is moving fast and slow at the same time.