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Hello @sunnyflower,

I read your post as well as Erika's, @erikas, response and I feel for both you and your daughters. I agree that involving a therapist would be a very good idea for you.

I also wonder if you have considered getting some help for your transportation and care needs from outside of your family on occasion? Perhaps a friend or your church or other county organization could provide some help assisting you? Having such help even one day a week might be a good thing.

Family members do not always have the physical or emotional capacity to care for someone who has chronic illnesses. Some outside help will often relieve that burden and help your family to understand that you care about their needs as well as your own.

Is this something you might discuss with your daughters?

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Replies to "Hello @sunnyflower, I read your post as well as Erika's, @erikas, response and I feel for..."

Thank you Teresa. I drive myself and we have paid literally thousands of dollars over the years hiring out help such as house cleaners, organizers, Etc, so that I would not be a burden on any family members. If I did not have a husband and might I add, such a great husband, then I would need to ask for help but I'm pretty independent although in bed about 95 or more percent of the time. @erikas Sunnyflower. 😊