Meet others living with Head & Neck Cancer: Introduce yourself

Welcome to the Head and Neck Cancer group.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet other people who are living with head and neck cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share experiences from diagnosis through treatment and coping with symptoms and recovery challenges.

As you know, head and neck cancer is the general term for a broad group of cancers that begin in the head and neck region. This include oropharyngeal cancer, hypopharyngeal cancer, laryngeal cancer, lip and oral cavity cancer, nasopharyngeal cancer, paranasal sinus and nasal cavity cancer, salivary gland cancer, squamous cell neck cancer or ameloblastoma.

Let’s get to know one another. Why not start by introducing yourself? What type of cancer have you been diagnosed with?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Head & Neck Cancer Support Group.

@marksur

Hi, I assume from your message you may have already been to Mayo. If you’re still there, you may want to inquire about the DART 2.0 study. Its purpose is to investigate the efficacy of de-escalated treatment for HPV related cancer. I enrolled but did not have the less treatment option as the cancer was too far advanced. Nevertheless, involvement in the study was valuable. I had proton therapy radiation on both sides of my neck ending in September and have tested cancer free so far. I had very few side effects, these I have so far are manageable. Good luck to you.

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Hi
Thank you for reaching out!
I’m actually meeting with Mayo tomorrow in Rochester and will inquire about the test. My community hospital was recommending no surgery, 6 1/2 weeks photon radiation and chemo. I’m hopeful that I can forego as much radiation as possible, hoping this is an option.

It’s great to hear that so far things are going well for you, hopefully it stays that way!

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@lennyc

RE: Nasopharyngeal carcinoma - New Patient
Hi, I'm Lenny. I'm a 70 year old woman recently diagnosed with nasopharyngeal cancer. I have had other cancer before (breast, chronic blood) but I must say this one really frightens me. I have had a CAT scan and MRI and need to have a PET scan. Treatment has been suggested as radiation and chemo withcisplatain. I haven't decided yet my course of action. I'm giving things a week or two for me to take this all in as it's such a shock. I have lost about 3/4 of my hearing in my right ear, have nasal congestion, headaches, tinnitus, and some ear pain twinges. This all came on suddenly within the last month. The doctors make it sound relatively easy, as if "oh, just get the chemo and radiation and yes, you might lose some hearing from the radiation and the saliva in your mouth will be reduced but then...you are just fine". I don't believe it. Will you please tell me the truth about the side effects that are certain to happen (so many are listed!) and how you are doing? I sometimes feel doctors downplay how bad things will be and I need to be prepared for the reality of living with this disease not only during treatment but afterwards. Thank you very much! A fellow warrior on this road! Lenny

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Hi Lenny, I realize more than a month has passed since your comment and you have undoubtedly made your initial decision about undergoing treatment. I was diagnosed May 2023 with HPV related squamous cell cancer in my right tonsil and lymph node. It grew quite rapidly over the next month. I began proton radiation and chemotherapy in early July at Mayo Phoenix. Treatment was completed in 7 weeks. I would highly recommend you consider this. I was initially diagnosed in my hometown and like you, the doctors made it sound relatively easy. That was not the case at Mayo, my wife and I were fully informed as to the potential side effects but also given many strategies to avoid them. We followed all of the recommendations and thankfully I have not suffered major problems. So it is possible to undergo the recommended treatment without very serious complications. I admit that my case was very fortunate regarded as unusual by the care teams but again it is possible. It was not in any sense easy and I have been on an emotional and psychological roller coaster for the last 7 months but I’m alive! Best of luck to you.

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@rrc185

Hi
Thank you for reaching out!
I’m actually meeting with Mayo tomorrow in Rochester and will inquire about the test. My community hospital was recommending no surgery, 6 1/2 weeks photon radiation and chemo. I’m hopeful that I can forego as much radiation as possible, hoping this is an option.

It’s great to hear that so far things are going well for you, hopefully it stays that way!

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rrc185, I decided very quickly to have proton radiation therapy rather than photon radiation. The radiation oncologist described how precise the targeting of the proton beam is compared to photon therapy and thus has the potential for much less collateral damage to nearby healthy tissue. My wife and I also went on a tour of the radiation facility at Mayo (the GLOW tour) where a physicist explained the process using very informative videos. The very narrow beam is precisely aimed at numerous points on the tumor over the course of the treatments. The calculations for the targeting process are very detailed and complex. A great deal of time is spent planning the process and adjusting as necessary. They showed my wife about halfway through treatment how distinct the line on my cheek inside my mouth was where the beam was entering to hit the tumor. She said it looked like it had been drawn with a ruler. I have had side effects from it but they haven’t been a a major ongoing disruption. Hope this helps

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@marksur

Hi, I was diagnosed with HPV related cancer in my tonsil and a lymph node on the right side of my neck in May 2023. It grew too quickly for surgery, so I had seven weeks of proton therapy radiation - every weekday for a total of 35 treatments and chemotherapy once a week at Mayo in Phoenix. The treatment was excellent, the chemo and radiation care teams were top notch professionals and very compassionate and supportive. In addition, my wife and I were provided with an incredible array of auxiliary treatment, a really excellent Speech-Language Pathologist, Audiologist, Social Worker and Gastroenterology team. I don’t have any experience with the Rochester Mayo but highly recommend the Phoenix campus.
My wife and I found that the waiting rooms designated specifically for radiation and medical oncology (chemo) were very helpful. We made a point of striking up conversations with other patients and their caregivers which provided an invaluable sense of community. Knowing you’re not alone in the struggle is priceless. Best of luck to you

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Thank you for your kind words and for responding. Because our daughter lives in Tampa with her family, we have made the decision to go to Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa. Even my oncologist at the Phoenix Mayo said they have a very good reputation and I believe having my daughter and granddaughter around will help a lot with the dark moments.

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@rrc185

Hi Colleen,
I’m hoping you can help me out. I’ve been recently diagnosed with throat cancer, base of tongue, HPV positive. I’ve scheduled an appointment with Dr. Moore for next week for an initial consult. I’m traveling from New York for this appointment and my question is whether or not it would be possible to meet with other members of the team i.e. oncology, chemotherapy, etc…. If you could point me to the right person in the department that would be awesome, I’d just like to make the most of my visit there - and I’d like to get treatment started ASAP.

I’ve had all of the tests run at the hospital in New York and we have a treatment plan ready to go. The reason I’m looking for a second opinion is because I was hoping to have de-escalated version of radiation as opposed to the six or seven weeks that my Dr’s here in NY are proposing.

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Oh gosh, @rrc185, somehow I'm only seeing this message today. My apologies for the late reply. How did your appointment go with Dr. Moore? Were you able to meet with other members of your cancer team? What is the treatment plan for you?

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@colleenyoung

Oh gosh, @rrc185, somehow I'm only seeing this message today. My apologies for the late reply. How did your appointment go with Dr. Moore? Were you able to meet with other members of your cancer team? What is the treatment plan for you?

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Hi Colleen,
No worries, the appointment went well. Very impressed with Dr Moore and his team. I came to Mayo seeking a second opinion and I’m glad I did.
Now the challenge will be getting my insurance company to approve this as it’s out of network for them. The provider that they work with said that surgery was not an option whereas Mayo is actually recommending it as a standard of care.

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@marksur

Hi, I assume from your message you may have already been to Mayo. If you’re still there, you may want to inquire about the DART 2.0 study. Its purpose is to investigate the efficacy of de-escalated treatment for HPV related cancer. I enrolled but did not have the less treatment option as the cancer was too far advanced. Nevertheless, involvement in the study was valuable. I had proton therapy radiation on both sides of my neck ending in September and have tested cancer free so far. I had very few side effects, these I have so far are manageable. Good luck to you.

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Thank you i just met with msk in new york which is near where i live they said the only way to get out of bone is with flap surgery ie take out entire cheek cavity and reconstruct with no guarantees. They implied radiation and chemo could do the same. Not
sure what to do as i am not aware that can get it put of the bone
I also got opinion from nyu permitter and they could do less surgery and scrape? Then radiation

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@marksur

Hi Lenny, I realize more than a month has passed since your comment and you have undoubtedly made your initial decision about undergoing treatment. I was diagnosed May 2023 with HPV related squamous cell cancer in my right tonsil and lymph node. It grew quite rapidly over the next month. I began proton radiation and chemotherapy in early July at Mayo Phoenix. Treatment was completed in 7 weeks. I would highly recommend you consider this. I was initially diagnosed in my hometown and like you, the doctors made it sound relatively easy. That was not the case at Mayo, my wife and I were fully informed as to the potential side effects but also given many strategies to avoid them. We followed all of the recommendations and thankfully I have not suffered major problems. So it is possible to undergo the recommended treatment without very serious complications. I admit that my case was very fortunate regarded as unusual by the care teams but again it is possible. It was not in any sense easy and I have been on an emotional and psychological roller coaster for the last 7 months but I’m alive! Best of luck to you.

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Thank you for your comments. I just met with msk in nyc and they said radiation chemo instead of surgery I have squamous cell carcinoma in maxillary sinus. But it is in the bone. Will radiation get it out of bone. He said flap surgery very invasive and no guarantees

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Nice to meet everyone...receiving support from a therapist right after my diagnosis was the best thing I did to help with the stress and anxiety before my two surgeries and treatments. Also seeing an integrative doctor at the hospital to help with my diet was a life saver. my academic medical center had all these added support services at the hospital. the only missing piece was not getting connected to a peer mentor after asking my doctors to connect me to someone from the community who was a survivor.

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@kathyheidt

Thank you i just met with msk in new york which is near where i live they said the only way to get out of bone is with flap surgery ie take out entire cheek cavity and reconstruct with no guarantees. They implied radiation and chemo could do the same. Not
sure what to do as i am not aware that can get it put of the bone
I also got opinion from nyu permitter and they could do less surgery and scrape? Then radiation

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@kathyheidt

Do you live near Westchester, NY? If so, may I suggest you reach out to Dr. Peter Costantino.
https://bssny.com/providers/peter-costantino-md/
You may use my name as a reference.

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