I'm sorry, I didn't answer your questions. My husband's family lives in different states. Texas and Washington . They are in terrible physical shape and weren't any help 25 years ago with their parents, when they could have helped. One is 4 years younger than us and the other is 18 years younger. We won't even mention his brother!
I'm with you as so glad that I discovered this website. I use this group and the ostomy group since I came home from our vacation with my new attachment.
By the way, I'm almost 82! Yikes