Hugs to you and your husband, I am so sorry to hear about this. I am not a man, but I was also stage 3 with mastectomy, 8 AC and the 12 Taxol. Then radiation and Xeloda (chemo pill for a year), so if you all have questions about the treatment I am happy to try and help.

With the Stage 3 my oncologist was able to get an immunotherapy for the cancer type I had that the drug company sponsored. It had been approved for Stages I, II, and IV, but they still needed data for III so they gave it to us free and we copied their trial regimen so they could present those findings. Maybe you all can find something for that?

All my best.