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@debscherber

That's what is so amazing about the world of transplants... like you mentioned, you connect with some of the most kind and compassionate people! My story is also a tiny facet of a much larger one, especially in relation to the other donors and recipients (and their families!) that I have directly and indirectly been involved with on this journey. But no matter how tiny you think your story is, please continue to share it as you are able. I'm always willing to listen! (A few weeks ago I shared parts of my story with someone who has been on both sides of transplant, so I knew I had someone with a wide perspective. I said things aloud that I had only previously stewed about in my own brain. We ended up having a good laugh at times as I realized how ridiculous some of my roller coaster ride really has been. But some of my closest friends or coworkers would never understand. It felt good to share with someone who understood the transplant world.)

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@debscherber Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect! Thank you for posting here, and telling your story. Not feeling alone, or so alone, is the best way we can serve others. For me, in my journey, there have been so many times I felt adrift and alone with no support, or the chance to have someone else nearby [in person or virtually] to kinda lean on. Here on Mayo Clinic Connect, we have the chance to reach up, reach out, and be there. It is indeed powerful.
Ginger

Yes, and the connection is truly on a visceral level. This past week I've been having a great deal of abdominal pain (which is where I tend to carry my grief and worry for others). I've not usually one to be emotionally empathetic, it seems to settle in my body. Like a labor. But it feels pretty wonderful when that pain subsides. My body isn't just made for pain but for healing and joy.