@brokendoll That must be heartbreaking for you! The thing with testing for possible transplant, a potential donor finds out just how healthy they truly are, physically/mentally/emotionally.

I am a multiple myeloma patient, and also a kidney patient. The kidney issue is not related to the myeloma. A few years ago I had asked at the transplant center in Portland [Oregon] if I would be considered for transplant, but they had said "no" due to the underlying kidney disease. My older sister had offered to be evaluated to be a living donor. I decided this week that I am going to contact them again to find out if their protocol will still exclude me.
Ginger