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Just thinking out loud: Humans Alone vs Social

Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Oct 31, 2023 | Replies (37)

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Happy to find this group. MC has always been my go to for medical.
There have many articles written re introverts vs extroverts pointed out to me by my daughter who, along with me, has always considered herself an intro. I might add, pointed out by fam/friends as well.
Ecstatic that the scientific community, as well as thoughtful folks have finally come to the conclusion that it is not at a matter of 'better than.'
I do believe intros have taken a bad rap, well forever, ie 'she's so quiet, she's so shy.. To' - snob, stuck up, she thinks she's better than us'.
For one thing I'm proud to be a good listener, as this was invaluable to me in my career as a counselor. Socially, the advantages are great... Listening to others is far more interesting than pouring out my thoughts too aggressively, without actually hearing the dialogue is oafish, imo.
So happy the scientific/medical/psychological community has come to the realization that we intros can't, and shouldn't, attempt to change ourselves.. Both extros and intros are equal imo... Learning from each other.
When I had to give a lecture to my patients.. I would state that it was necessary. "Now it's your turn, I can be selfish, I want to learn." Best

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Good evening @linsvh4 It is so great to meet a counselor/therapist on Connect. Welcome! We need you to set examples for us. So let's start with a sort of funny situation. My life partner and I were both counselors --- high school for him and college for me. He is most definitely an introvert. And I have been known to not know how to keep my mouth closed. And guess what....we had some of the same Textbooks when we were in college. He worked for 30+ years at the high school level. I managed to make it for 15 years at the college level.

He preferred the one-to-one situation. I taught Group counseling and preferred to be with groups for orientation and therapy. And yet.....we live together well.

So....we need both introverts and extroverts. What are you hoping to accomplish here on Connect? What do you want to learn?

May you have happiness and the causes of happiness.
Chris