totally agree... only those of us going through it have a real understanding of what it is like. One of the things that gets to me is when we go out with friends... My hubby has a wonderful time as do I. He "showtimes" and everyone thinks all is good - that is what they see then. Over the next couple of days my friends call and say how well he is doing... They don't have a clue of the "acting" and stress I experience on a daily basis. I don't correct them... would be no point. But, it does add to the stress.