Don't know what to think and feeling uncertain at this point

I am feeling this way. 🙁

I would like to share this with you from the NIH Natural Library of Medicine.This is a copy/paste.Early detection of multiple myeloma in primary care using blood tests: a case–control study in primary care.
INTRODUCTION:
Multiple myeloma is a rare malignancy, characterised by clonal proliferation of plasma cells. These cells secrete immunoglobulins (paraproteins), which can lead to plasma hyperviscosity and renal damage. Proliferation of plasma cells can lead to bone marrow suppression, and may cause hypercalcaemia. These various features of myeloma give rise to different symptoms, such as bone pain from direct skeletal involvement, fatigue from anaemia, or headache from hyperviscosity. Presentation with complications from hypercalcaemia or renal failure is also common.

Diagnosis of myeloma is often difficult. Patients with myeloma have the longest intervals from initial symptom reporting to diagnosis of all common cancers, with the most consultations in primary care before referral.1,2 Longer diagnostic intervals in myeloma are associated with more advanced disease stages and more complications at diagnosis.3,4 Patients who are not referred to the appropriate department generally experience a longer diagnostic process.5 A large proportion of patients are diagnosed through emergency presentations, with concomitant worse survival.6,7 A recent study reported that 77% of all myeloma emergency presentations had at least one primary care consultation before the emergency and 56% of these had at least three.8

This prolonged diagnostic process probably represents the non-specific nature of myeloma symptoms, with positive predictive values for symptoms < 1%, even in combination.9 Guidance from the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) uses an urgent cancer threshold for referral of 3%.10 In myeloma, symptoms need to be combined with abnormal blood results such as full blood counts (FBC), calcium, and inflammatory markers to reach that threshold. The inflammatory markers C-reactive protein (CRP), erythrocyte sedimentation rate (ESR), and plasma viscosity (PV), when considered together, have been used for diagnosing myeloma but have not been reported individually.11–13

The aims of this study are to identify the best inflammatory marker for initial investigation of possible myeloma, useful blood tests for ruling out symptomatic myeloma, and how to distinguish early and late features of the disease. Symptoms can occur up to 2 years before diagnosis in other cancers, but little is known about the timing of symptoms and abnormal blood test results before diagnosis in myeloma.14,15 The latter can explain why some features have better rule-out properties than others as features that manifest very late in the diagnosis can be useful for ruling in the disease but not as useful for ruling it out. This is just a part of this study. I wanted to point out how long it takes for Primary Care Physicians to get the ball rolling for their patients. By the time MM patients are finally diagnosed, unfortunately they are already in stage 3. I can't even count how many People's testimonies I have read on blogs on Myeloma Websites that Patients claim they went to the PCP with blatant symptoms of MM, or SMM, multiple times, and never get the required tests to rule out MM, or to confirm MM. Is this negligence?
I have even expressed my concerns to my DO I AM concerned I MAY have MM, and she ignores it, or is "Not concerned" when she views my standard blood work tests. I am STUCK where I am. I have no choice to go to this clinic or keep running up the ER. The majority of Doctors practicing in my clinic are Residents or PA's. Because this is a "Teaching Clinic", they come and go at a very rapid rate. You NEVER have the same Doctor long. When your "Doctor" leaves they ASSIGN a new one too you. I have tried over and over again to get a new Doctor at a different clinic(Same clinic but just different locations) I am told "No one" is accepting new patients. One Doctor is however, booked for the year. I was referred to Neurology, it could be 4-6 months before I get an Appt., & yes, I was told this by them. My saving grace is at a totally different clinic but in the same network, that accepts my insurance. I am able to see this Internal Medicine Doctor in January, 3 months from now.
Do I feel screwed? Yep. Do I feel I am being gaslighted? Yep I do. Do I feel lost in the system? Yep. Do I feel my Doctor is inept? Yep I do. Do I want a different Doctor? Yep. I asked about this to switch and they are all the same. I have seen 2 besides my regular Doctor and I will never see them again. I actually had to file a complaint and spoke to the Supervisor.
I am thee only one advocating for myself. Believe me, that is the truth. ~

Thank you so much for your response.
To your question #1. Yes, I have symptoms and no diagnosis.
To question #2. Yes. Have been to ER July 28, August 24, Sept. 30. They did run blood work/Standard Urine sampling. Yes, I expressed my symptoms in detail & how long I have had them. They are going on standard blood tests.
Question #3. No, I have not seen any specialist's, only my DO at my clinic. DO put in referral for Neurology. They are still "Triaging" my case. I was told it could be 4 months or longer before I get an appt. They will call.
Question #4. Yes. Some tests are normal, and some slightly out of range. I intentionally question every single number out of range and ask why and IF they are concerned. The answer has been, "Not concerned". I go through my labs with a fine tooth comb.
Question #5. Yes. I have turned to "The internet of things" for my answers. I feel I have no choice.
Question #6. Yes. I am scared, confused, I am convinced I do have MM, which I told my Doctor in my appt. She said "You do not have MM, how can I help you to get that out of your mind?" I was stunned she told me this with NO required tests to deny or confirm MGUS, SMM, or MM. This scared me because this proves she knows NOTHING about MM. I desperately want a better Doctor, but I am stuck as of now. Jan. I see a new doctor and different clinic.
Yes, you have it right. In reel time this is how it is. I feel I am in a living hell. I feel like absolute shi*t and the Medical people do not give a damn. ~

* I am very detailed with every symptom and I intentionally log everything in My Chart. That is a "digital paper trail" that can NOT by law be erased. Every single detail I send to my Doctor in detail even with times and dates. I still have to download it in my computer.

My sister had Multiple Myeloma. She was fortunate to have a Urologist who said, "Something is wrong here," when he saw the results of a urinalysis test. She was showing no symptoms, but the doc sent her right away for a bone marrow biopsy, which confirmed MM. Patients are living 10-12 years with MM, if they can go through a bone marrow transplant. My sis wasn't physically up for that. She passed about five years after diagnosis. That was four years ago. I still miss her terribly.

I pray for you to have answers soon. Perhaps if you see a Urologist?