Squamous cell carcinoma (SCC) P16+
the biopsy stated P16 positive squamous cell carcinoma with associated necrosis...
Things are flying by me so fast, yet I read the article from Mayo saying less is more. Also waiting on a call back as I want to explore the options that I don't even know what is about to happen, I have never ever had any issues and out of no where here this lump is.
I should state also I've never ever had surgery, been in the hospital etc. but also I am very careful as I totally freak out (potential heart attack levels of freaking out) with needles and anything medical. I can't even stand to be in a hospital room. So when things are flying at me I have zero time to try to wrap my head around any of this.
Sorry for the long wind.... but any info to start to process this would help. I'm supposed to do a PET scan when I get back from vacation. trust me when I say that took me 2 weeks to get my head to where I MIGHT get through it.
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Bruce I know you’re probably scared and as a man you’re taught to be tough. Just know that you need to let it out and lean on your family and friends to help you through. Also yes, prayers and God are truly lifesaving. I didn’t have the surgery, but I did have the experience of being in the “cage” Get your oncologist to prescribe a mild muscle relaxer. I tried a few times without them and I didn’t do well. From experience I know you have quite a battle ahead. Just know that there are a lot of us out there and we’re always with you. If you have any questions please feel free to ask me. I was scared because of the uncertainty of it all. Maybe I can give you a little bit more insight. Praying 🙏🏼
Thank you jersey! I appreciate your kind words of encouragement and your advice on the muscle relaxer. I hadn't thought of that. I have some strong support from family and church family but it is nice to know there are others who have gone through this and care and understand. Again, thank you! I will probably be reaching out as time goes on.
Blessings
Bruce
This is the medication that I took for the duration of my radiation to calm me. It didn’t make me sleepy, just calm. I do think though that they recommend you don’t drive. Also when you start chemo make sure you ask for something for nausea. That along with my tongue being sore were the reasons I wouldn’t eat. I lost 85lbs! First time in my life I was happy to be overweight 😂
@buzzltyr57 Bruce, I really appreciate the thorough post you did at the beginning of this discussion! As an active blood cancer patient, with additional health concerns, for me, having everything laid out to me has given me the whole picture. Yes, there may be some changes/modifications along the way, but having the handle on the big scene is comforting. There are fewer surprises, and if there are changes downgrading a treatment, all the better! Often, we cling to what is said, and if/when the team needs to upgrade a decision, our mind runs to, "but you said xxxx, not yyyy, and I'm not ready to accept that!"
Be an involved patient. Take notes, ask questions, write down what you hear. Ask for a social worker to aid you through everything. Don't be reluctant to ask friends/family/faith community for help [it sounds like they are already on board with that!] Graciously accept offers of help. Have you considered writing down your experiences, in a journal form?
Ginger
Thank you, Ginger for your wise words. I have considered, and will probably write as I update family and friends. I tend to be long winded and give more detail probably than whats asked for. I can collect them into one place at some point. As for a daily journal - probably not likely - I don't usually process in writing - I usually process and then keep it in for a while until fully percolated. Then if i write it down it would be in narrative form for someone curious.
Thank you again! My wife I will pray for your situation. We pray God will intervene with healing whether by miracle or medicine, Thanks be to God our Father!
Bruce
Thank you! I will ask them. i have about a month before any RT or Chemo. But Ill ask about these things. Thanks again my friend!
Bruce
6 years ago my periodontist referred me to head and neck surgeon because a very small squamous cell carcinoma was found at the base of a tooth in the right lower jaw. The surgeon felt I was too old at 88 years to have extensive surgery, referred me to an excellent radiation oncologist who felt that radiation was too risky because of the possibility of radiatiion necrosis of the jaw. I then saw two medical oncologists who felt that radiation was not too risky and the best treatment for my age. I then called Mayo Clinic in Phoenix to get an opinion of a medical oncologist and they would only let me see a surgeon who recommended 12 hour surgery to completely remove the lower jaw and have a bone transplant from the scapula-a procedure which would require at least 7 hours of surgery under general anesthesia, more than a week in the hospital, and,possibly, a tracheostomy and a feeding tube. The surgeon was insistent and I refused because, as a physician myself, I felt that if I survived I could probably have dementia from the prolonged anesthesia.
A friend of mine from Sloane-Kettering in New York recommended a radiation oncologist in Phoenix who felt that radiation was the best option, who treated me with a month of radiation and has followed up with a series of petscans of the radiatiion site , and, so far there havbe been no symptoms and no evidence of recurrence of the cancer anywhere and there have been no symptoms whatsoever. At 93 + years I am healthy and enjoying life.
The moral of the story is get multiple opinions and if you are in your eighties realize that surgery can be lethal and cause severe dementia from prolonged anesthesia and cause terrible suffering worse than death.
I have been surprised by the Mayo Clinic surgeon's insistence that extensive surgery under prolonged general anesthesia was the only solution.
@mnmike, you mention the ropey phlegm using past tense. Does this mean the phlegm is less now? And sleep is easier for you?
Hi Colleen,
The phlegm symptoms are still there, but less severe than they were during radiation treatment. I still need to clear my mouth and throat periodically through the night, and of course, sip water every couple hours. I do not sleep without interruptions. Gabapentin seems to help with the sleep.
@johnfinaz, wow! What an inspiring story you have. You give good advice about getting more than one opinion. On the same note, I was told my tonsils needed to be removed, although they had atrophied away due to age. That doctor had already performed a Nasal-Endoscopy (NE) and told me I had "arthritis in my neck!" After the ear/throat pain progressed, the doctor resorted to scheduling a tonsillectomy. That inner voice, or "feeling" if you will, said "no way." I call that the voice of our creator. Soon after, a Cat Scan was assigned. Believe it or not, they STILL did not see (?) the obvious tumor in my throat! The Cat Scan reading proclaimed "Eagles Syndrome," which is when the Styloid bones grow into the nerves in the jaw area. Once again, that voice told me "No." Finally, I went to an Indiana University ENT and had a third NE performed. This great ENT saw the tumor in my throat (Pyriform Sinus) right-off-the-bat. So, there were three opinions sought, not two. Instead of asking "Did you get a second opinion" the question should be "Did you get a third opinion?" I finished radiation in 2020, and so far, so good. Still, it required a lot of vocal exercises and swallow studies to regain my voice and eating/swallowing ability. After contracting Covid twice. I now have paralyzed vocal cords. Whether the radiation, covid, or a combination of both caused the paralysis, is anyone's guess. A tracheotomy was done two years ago, which allows excess mucus to be easily discharged. The vocal cords being paralyzed, blocked the mucus from escaping...This caused numerous lung ailments, plus a gross inability to breathe, so the tracheotomy is very welcome. If anyone reading this is undergoing radiation, or will be undergoing radiation, please research red-light therapy. A small wand runs about $20.00 and is proven very helpful with radiated tissue healing/protection. @johnfinaz, you are an inspiration!