Thank you for nailing this thought train so well!

I'd like to start a Fantasy Wish List of what we'd really like to hear. Could we start with - #1 What can I do to help you? #2 Could I bring a meal one evening a week to give you some time off? #3 I'll come stay with your loved one for several hours if there's somewhere you'd like to go or just to have a break. #4 I'm going shopping, is there anything I can pick up for you? #5 I've got some time tomorrow, is there anything I can come help you with? #6 I'm pretty good with handyman stuff like plumbing, fixing things etc. Just give me a call if you need anything fixed. (That should maybe go higher in this list.)

Feel free to add to this list folks.