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Thank you! I just got off the phone with our insurance liaison. I told her it very well could be nothing, but I deserve to know that. She agreed, and is pushing through a surgeon visit. I’ve seen this Dr. before for calcifications, so she’s familiar with my file. .
I am so angry for all those women who don’t have resources to get their peace of mind. Why is this so difficult?
@ilc67 “ I got in the habit of asking, if it was a male doctor, if I was your wife, mother, daughter? Would you just say it's nothing don't worry about it???“
This is what I asked with the first radiologist I saw following my lumpectomy for DCIS. I theoretically did not have any cancer cells as the biopsy o had, actually got them, So when I had lumpectomy done, there was no cancer cells on any of the tissue. The answer my radiologist gave me was “that is not a fair question “. I told him it was a very fair question. He had recommended radiation 5 days a week for 7 weeks. I told him I theoretically did not have cancer. He response ‘That is the protocol’. Needless to say I did not stay with him. My surgeon recommended a radiologist in his team, I did not even have to ask him that question before he said ‘if you wee my wife, I would not have you do radiation’. I did not do radiation. The first year or so I second guessed my decision, but then knew it was the right decision, for me. I was 50 at the time.
Different doctor have different perspectives. Do your research and talk to them. Ask as many questions as you need You will come to a point knowing what is right for You.