← Return to Squamous cell carcinoma (SCC) P16+
DiscussionSquamous cell carcinoma (SCC) P16+
Head & Neck Cancer | Last Active: Apr 4 8:21pm | Replies (110)Comment receiving replies
Replies to "Hello to all, I’ve been diag’ed with SquamousP16 on back RT side of the tongue and..."
This is the medication that I took for the duration of my radiation to calm me. It didn’t make me sleepy, just calm. I do think though that they recommend you don’t drive. Also when you start chemo make sure you ask for something for nausea. That along with my tongue being sore were the reasons I wouldn’t eat. I lost 85lbs! First time in my life I was happy to be overweight 😂
@buzzltyr57 Bruce, I really appreciate the thorough post you did at the beginning of this discussion! As an active blood cancer patient, with additional health concerns, for me, having everything laid out to me has given me the whole picture. Yes, there may be some changes/modifications along the way, but having the handle on the big scene is comforting. There are fewer surprises, and if there are changes downgrading a treatment, all the better! Often, we cling to what is said, and if/when the team needs to upgrade a decision, our mind runs to, "but you said xxxx, not yyyy, and I'm not ready to accept that!"
Be an involved patient. Take notes, ask questions, write down what you hear. Ask for a social worker to aid you through everything. Don't be reluctant to ask friends/family/faith community for help [it sounds like they are already on board with that!] Graciously accept offers of help. Have you considered writing down your experiences, in a journal form?
Ginger
6 years ago my periodontist referred me to head and neck surgeon because a very small squamous cell carcinoma was found at the base of a tooth in the right lower jaw. The surgeon felt I was too old at 88 years to have extensive surgery, referred me to an excellent radiation oncologist who felt that radiation was too risky because of the possibility of radiatiion necrosis of the jaw. I then saw two medical oncologists who felt that radiation was not too risky and the best treatment for my age. I then called Mayo Clinic in Phoenix to get an opinion of a medical oncologist and they would only let me see a surgeon who recommended 12 hour surgery to completely remove the lower jaw and have a bone transplant from the scapula-a procedure which would require at least 7 hours of surgery under general anesthesia, more than a week in the hospital, and,possibly, a tracheostomy and a feeding tube. The surgeon was insistent and I refused because, as a physician myself, I felt that if I survived I could probably have dementia from the prolonged anesthesia.
A friend of mine from Sloane-Kettering in New York recommended a radiation oncologist in Phoenix who felt that radiation was the best option, who treated me with a month of radiation and has followed up with a series of petscans of the radiatiion site , and, so far there havbe been no symptoms and no evidence of recurrence of the cancer anywhere and there have been no symptoms whatsoever. At 93 + years I am healthy and enjoying life.
The moral of the story is get multiple opinions and if you are in your eighties realize that surgery can be lethal and cause severe dementia from prolonged anesthesia and cause terrible suffering worse than death.
I have been surprised by the Mayo Clinic surgeon's insistence that extensive surgery under prolonged general anesthesia was the only solution.
Hi Colleen,
The phlegm symptoms are still there, but less severe than they were during radiation treatment. I still need to clear my mouth and throat periodically through the night, and of course, sip water every couple hours. I do not sleep without interruptions. Gabapentin seems to help with the sleep.
Bruce I know you’re probably scared and as a man you’re taught to be tough. Just know that you need to let it out and lean on your family and friends to help you through. Also yes, prayers and God are truly lifesaving. I didn’t have the surgery, but I did have the experience of being in the “cage” Get your oncologist to prescribe a mild muscle relaxer. I tried a few times without them and I didn’t do well. From experience I know you have quite a battle ahead. Just know that there are a lot of us out there and we’re always with you. If you have any questions please feel free to ask me. I was scared because of the uncertainty of it all. Maybe I can give you a little bit more insight. Praying 🙏🏼