When I first reached out to her I replayed on one of her post . I thought maybe I didn't do it right. So I when to the help option and "How to Send a Private Message
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Click Send Message"
I then thought I was "doing it wrong"as I said in my pervious reply that I was asked to reply to that I was receiving the responses. Then I get another reply with most of my replay in "quotations" as I take as frustrating person replaying. So this whole "discussion has turned into a very big mess and I think I will step away. Thanks and thank you to very ones support