dear Matgaretob,

Have you read or heard about the "broken heart syndrome"?
It can be psychological, but physiological , as well. I'm told.
Sometimes the greatest truths almost sound trite. Here goes, "
We only go this way once. Life is ours to optimize or make the best.
Of course, life is tough. Especially in later years. Are we going to be a VICTIM or VICTOR? The immense difference is just a few letters different. It's a choice all must make.

Give those Grandkids a big hug and "attaboy(girl) and see what happens to their attitude( and yours). We are all precious people
in this life. Grab yours while you can. Cheers !