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@ Allstaedt57
I’m so sorry about your spouse. I often think about how much the support I get from my husband makes navigating health issues less scary. He and I have both lost beloved spouses and have been caretakers. While that gives one a unique perspective, the experiential learning of navigating the last chapter of life with someone you love takes it’s toll. As a nurse you have seen this a lot, I suspect.
I hope you have a good support system that can cheer you on and understand your angst. It’s easier said than done…to be calm in the storm and avoid stress, as you physician so wisely advised. Nurses are wonderful caretakers and in my circle of nurse friends (I was a pediatric medical social worker) they carry so much on their shoulders. They find it hard to be cared for. I hope you are surrounded by loving friends and family and will unburden yourself as you can.
Hugs! So glad you found us. I know we will learn from you and I appreciate hearing your story.
Patty
You are so well informed! I need to start being more involved with this journey that I started with MGUS in May this year. I will definitely ask more questions with my oncologist next month after my 3 month blood work appointment follow-up. Thank you. Keep smiling!
Great read and advice.
Really liked "Looking for the sunshine and if I can’t find it I make it."
Greetings Teri / #Allstaedt57,
Thank you so much for sharing all your wonderful insights. I'm sorry I'm so long in responding to everything you shared. It sounds like participating in the WFPBD/Curcumin study is working out very well for you. It's interesting that you've confirmed my fear -- based on talking with Dr. Shah and her assistant Ms. Castro and my insurance companies -- that my insurance wouldn't pay for some of the "gray" area tests/procedures in the consent form they sent me. I agree that it's a very interesting study, and I hope that some new treatment options evolve out it eventually. I finally decided not to participate because of the expense. Also, traveling always disrupts my normal digestion so I would need to stay several days in NYC in order to provide required "materials." I do take the same Curcumin C3 Complex by Sabinsa Corp that they recommend and try to eat mainly a plant based diet. That's the rub though, it's very hard to adhere to a WFPBD diet without support.
I haven't had a PET scan, maybe I'll request one when I see my hematologist in September. But a few months ago, I had a BMB that showed I had progressed to SMM. I consulted with Dr. Gertz at Mayo Clinic, and their pathology department reread my BMB slides, concluding that my plasma count was less than 5%. Whew! They use a different, more accurate methodology for counting the plasma cells. While Dr. Gertz is brilliant, I didn't get any advice on how to forestall disease progression. So, I may still consult with Dr. Shah or Dr. Richardson or others at MSK or DF. Having hope is so essential!
I must say you are truly amazing in the energy, drive, and optimism you show. I pray you do well and prosper. Thanks so much for writing.
Best wishes,
Deborah
Hi Allstaedt57,
I am so sorry about the death of your dear husband. I really appreciate your sharing your history, knowledge and insights into your husband and your MGUS/SMM/MM experience.
I also have MGUS. May I ask what your experience has been with the Memorial Sloan Kettering study Dr. Shah is leading. I considered it, but I live a 4 hour drive from NYC and decided it would be too difficult to go there 5 or 6 times for all the monitoring. But based on your posting, I'm reconsidering participating. Thanks so much for sharing.
Best wishes,
Deborah