in reply to @olderdiva12345 Thank you for the kind words of wisdom. I have more to say, but am leaving soon for Harvest Day. I am looking forward to being around like minded people. I am smiling because I have this other mantra, "if I look good, I feel good." I am looking quite spiffy today, sans makeup. We have a lot in common. I have two sisters, one who no longer talks to me and has removed me from her life because she did not want to hear about my medical issues. In fact, she told me her "life coach" said to tell me that she only wanted to talk about recipes. It has been three years and I am fine with the situation. My sisters are 8 and 10 years older than me, and I have a very close relationship with my oldest sister.
In any event, have a blessed day. Best. Fran