I can defiantly relate. I also feel guilty when I think about how nice it would be to get basic affection again. I just keep praying for relief from the desires. As a man of faith any thought of another woman or cheating is out of the question. So I just keep trying to be a good friend and maybe someday She will gain desire again. Hang in there is all I can say, I know for me if i ever gave into another woman the guilt would be worse than the moment of pleasure.