@mkb4435
Agree 100%! I am 5 weeks out from my BC surgery so I am new at this as well. There is so much to learn since it is crucial to be your own advocate.
I do not want defined as the poor woman with breast cancer. I do not want attention or pity. I know because I have been guilty of defining others in the past when I was terrified for them. Now it’s me in this hot seat. It’s a life wake up call!
It’s my story to tell and I chose not to share it with people outside my family… or here of course.
This journey has been exhausting. I was diagnosed in May and seems like the appointments have been non stop. I’m thankful that my cancer center and my team is wonderful.
I have my first radiation treatment today.
I am embracing this diagnosis as a blessing. BC has changed my perspective. I am humbled, I have discovered grace. I appreciate all the moments of my life good and bad. And of course we are allowed all feelings and emotions!
The hardest part for me was telling our 4 children and 4 grandchildren. I couldn’t bear to break their hearts and worry them. My family has held me up. I am truly thankful. I have to find good in this since it’s now my life.
Best wishes to you!