I rant. Breast cancer is not fair! I had just retired!! I had just reconnected with my first love!!! We moved to a beautiful new condo in a vacation paradise!!!! I was diagnosed with cancer! I am a nice person! I volunteer! I rarely curse! My kids tell me I’m a good mom, my grandkids adore me. My body gave me cancer! No fair!! Sucks! Ok thanks for reading, I feel a wee bit better now. Ranting (without hurting another) can let some of the pressure out and make room for more positive thoughts. It’s worth a try