No, not a rosy picture to be aging and facing down a breast cancer diagnosis among other barbs life throws at us.

It can be irritating when health care providers in the oncology setting seem perky and rosy; common courtesy towards strangers has met its challenge in this depressing and dull fog arena. I answer honestly, which varies but I do thank them for asking and also ask how they are doing.

It must be very challenging to face oncology clients everyday and burnout is high in all healthcare settling. As irritating as it can be at times, I am grateful that I am not met with a doom and gloom personality. And I am grateful for their service. It is one of those issues that needs a coping mechanism. Mine is to assume that common courtesy, like elevator talk ( the weather) is maybe the best alternative.

This space, however, is a good place to bring our anger, disappointments, fears and also our good news ( under the circumstances) and joys. We are all in a really tough spot here and ALL emotions are valid and welcome!