I agree with another response that everyone responds differently to medications. I have the same three problems that you do. The medication that ended up working best for me is Effexor. I was on it just a few days when I felt the calming effects. Suddenly the world was a better place for me. This may not be the medication that works best for you, but take comfort in knowing that there IS a drug out there that will help you find relief! Talk to your doctor, and keep trying until you find the right one.