Caregiver needed stem cell transplant while at Mayo in Rochester

Posted by bevprescott @bevprescott, May 11, 2023

How does one find a qualified caregiver? I possibly need one for stemcell transplant 24/7 for 6 weeks in Rochester.

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Hi Lori,
This is my 3rd visit to Mayo. Last visit over a year ago, my condition has worsened. So we'll see what Drs say.
Ideas of questions to ask would be helpful.

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@bevprescott

Hi Lori,
This is my 3rd visit to Mayo. Last visit over a year ago, my condition has worsened. So we'll see what Drs say.
Ideas of questions to ask would be helpful.

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Then you’re a pro at this already. 😀 I’ll be interested to hear the next step for you. You’re in good hands.

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@loribmt

That’s awesome! I’m so happy you have a friend who can be with you and your sisters. I think you’ll be very happy with your meeting with your transplant doctor. The team at Mayo is very thorough, they listen and take their time with you. Like I said, it’s my home away from home. My doctor and I have an amazing rapport and I feel more like a colleague than a patient.
There is this underlying feeling of calmness and hope when you walk through the buildings at Mayo. The buildings are all connected and it’s super easy to get around. If you need to go from one building to another, it’s easiest to be on the S level as there is no break in the floor plan. So it’s contiguous from Mayo, Gonda, Eisenberg, Methodist, etc. Every thing is well marked with easy directions. There’s an overabundance of volunteers in blue jackets to help you in any way they can.

Do you have any specific questions about your visit coming up?

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Hi Lori,
I had my appt on June 5th. Both Drs want me to wait & I don't really understand why. The literature says do sct when young & healthy. I have researched the risks, & I still want to proceed. I'm surviving on very low hemoglobin 6.3 to 7.8. This is not quality of life I want.
Are there key things I can say to them to proceed???
Dr mentioned if I develop another mutation they would go forward.
I have virtual visits in August with transplant & MPN specialist.

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@bevprescott

Hi Lori,
I had my appt on June 5th. Both Drs want me to wait & I don't really understand why. The literature says do sct when young & healthy. I have researched the risks, & I still want to proceed. I'm surviving on very low hemoglobin 6.3 to 7.8. This is not quality of life I want.
Are there key things I can say to them to proceed???
Dr mentioned if I develop another mutation they would go forward.
I have virtual visits in August with transplant & MPN specialist.

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Hi Bev, Having low hemoglobin numbers can really leave you feeling like a limp dishrag…pretty much rung out. I know how awful it feels and you’d surely like to return to a level of normal energy.

I can only speculate as to why both doctors feel this isn’t the time to proceed with stem cell transplant at this time. Transplants are often the last resort after lower level options of treatment have been exhausted. An allogenic transplant, with cells from a donor, comes with its own set of risks and potential chronic issues. It’s not done capriciously because it’s an arduous process. And I can understand your logic of having this done when you’re younger and healthier. If it helps any, I was 65 at the time and did fine…and that’s after several months of intensive chemo. I mentor patients at my local cancer clinic who have AML and require a SCT. Two people I’m working with currently is a man who is 75 and the female patient is 69. They both have gotten through the worst of it now and recovering. Still fatigued but the blood numbers are starting to climb and things look encouraging.

I don’t think we’ve discussed your diagnosis but I see that you’re meeting with a Myeloproliferative neoplasm specialist along with a transplant doctor. MPN is a rather general category for blood disorders where the marrow isn’t producing enough healthy cells: Either red, white or platelets. There are several types and different blood components affected. At this point it may be that your doctors are looking at this disease in its early stage and aren’t able to predict where it’s going yet. So it’s understandable that they might not be recommending the SCT until they know. If/when a specific mutation is identified, then that would be helpful for determining the course of treatment. Does that make sense? And of course, if this continues to proliferate it may influence their decision to go ahead sooner.

I trust my team at Mayo Rochester implicitly. They are the best in the world at what they do and you have the same team…not necessarily my doctor but they share the support BMT teams. So honestly, if you have two Mayo doctors telling you you’re not ready yet, I’d go with their direction. Though I admit I am a bit biased. ☺️

Are your WBC and platelets involved too or just your red cells? Have you been treated with any medications such as hydroxyurea?
Have you had any blood transfusions?

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@loribmt

Hi Bev, Having low hemoglobin numbers can really leave you feeling like a limp dishrag…pretty much rung out. I know how awful it feels and you’d surely like to return to a level of normal energy.

I can only speculate as to why both doctors feel this isn’t the time to proceed with stem cell transplant at this time. Transplants are often the last resort after lower level options of treatment have been exhausted. An allogenic transplant, with cells from a donor, comes with its own set of risks and potential chronic issues. It’s not done capriciously because it’s an arduous process. And I can understand your logic of having this done when you’re younger and healthier. If it helps any, I was 65 at the time and did fine…and that’s after several months of intensive chemo. I mentor patients at my local cancer clinic who have AML and require a SCT. Two people I’m working with currently is a man who is 75 and the female patient is 69. They both have gotten through the worst of it now and recovering. Still fatigued but the blood numbers are starting to climb and things look encouraging.

I don’t think we’ve discussed your diagnosis but I see that you’re meeting with a Myeloproliferative neoplasm specialist along with a transplant doctor. MPN is a rather general category for blood disorders where the marrow isn’t producing enough healthy cells: Either red, white or platelets. There are several types and different blood components affected. At this point it may be that your doctors are looking at this disease in its early stage and aren’t able to predict where it’s going yet. So it’s understandable that they might not be recommending the SCT until they know. If/when a specific mutation is identified, then that would be helpful for determining the course of treatment. Does that make sense? And of course, if this continues to proliferate it may influence their decision to go ahead sooner.

I trust my team at Mayo Rochester implicitly. They are the best in the world at what they do and you have the same team…not necessarily my doctor but they share the support BMT teams. So honestly, if you have two Mayo doctors telling you you’re not ready yet, I’d go with their direction. Though I admit I am a bit biased. ☺️

Are your WBC and platelets involved too or just your red cells? Have you been treated with any medications such as hydroxyurea?
Have you had any blood transfusions?

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GM Lori
My diagnosis is myelofibrosis. I have 2 mutations, CALR & another one. I do not make enough red blood cells, my wbc is low due to oral chemo drugs I'm on. I've had numerous transfusions & thus my ferritin is very high & in my liver. I've had 5 Bmb.
My health has declined in past year.
I tell people I feel like a wet noodle. I also deal with chronic diarrhea & take drugs for it to no avail. which makes it hard to go places, I get out & for, but gotta know where bathroom is.

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@bevprescott

GM Lori
My diagnosis is myelofibrosis. I have 2 mutations, CALR & another one. I do not make enough red blood cells, my wbc is low due to oral chemo drugs I'm on. I've had numerous transfusions & thus my ferritin is very high & in my liver. I've had 5 Bmb.
My health has declined in past year.
I tell people I feel like a wet noodle. I also deal with chronic diarrhea & take drugs for it to no avail. which makes it hard to go places, I get out & for, but gotta know where bathroom is.

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Good morning. ☺️
Thank you for letting me know your diagnosis. Now I’m getting a clearer picture of what you’re experiencing. I didn’t know where you were on this blood disorder journey so that information helped me understand what you’re dealing with.

Wet noodle is definitely a term I can relate to! I do want to let you know, that if you go through with the transplant in hopes of gaining back energy and stamina, you will still have wet noodle days in the beginning. The benefits aren’t immediate. There’s a slow but progressive recovery which can take some months. But it does get better! Unlike what you’re facing now where you feel like you’re declining with no hope in sight. That’s an awful feeling.

I’m so sorry to hear about your chronic diarrhea. As if your other symptoms weren’t enough. Goodness, that takes a toll on your health and energy level too, especially when you’re not absorbing all the nutrients you need…plus the constant worry about making contingency plans. Has anything been diagnosed for you in that department?

In my experiences, every doctor I’ve met in my 4 years at Mayo has been very approachable and forthcoming with answers to questions and allowing me to be part of the decision making. So when you have your appt in August, have a list a questions ready for them. You’d like to know if there’s any clinical reason for you not to have this SCT sooner in hopes of getting your life back to normal.
That you’re getting weaker and feel your health is declining. You can state what you mentioned to me in an early reply; You’re under the assumption that having this procedure done when you’re younger and healthier would be more beneficial. And you can also ask what’s their logic and reasoning behind their decision to wait.

How often do you get bloodwork done at a local clinic?

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@loribmt

Hi Bev, Having low hemoglobin numbers can really leave you feeling like a limp dishrag…pretty much rung out. I know how awful it feels and you’d surely like to return to a level of normal energy.

I can only speculate as to why both doctors feel this isn’t the time to proceed with stem cell transplant at this time. Transplants are often the last resort after lower level options of treatment have been exhausted. An allogenic transplant, with cells from a donor, comes with its own set of risks and potential chronic issues. It’s not done capriciously because it’s an arduous process. And I can understand your logic of having this done when you’re younger and healthier. If it helps any, I was 65 at the time and did fine…and that’s after several months of intensive chemo. I mentor patients at my local cancer clinic who have AML and require a SCT. Two people I’m working with currently is a man who is 75 and the female patient is 69. They both have gotten through the worst of it now and recovering. Still fatigued but the blood numbers are starting to climb and things look encouraging.

I don’t think we’ve discussed your diagnosis but I see that you’re meeting with a Myeloproliferative neoplasm specialist along with a transplant doctor. MPN is a rather general category for blood disorders where the marrow isn’t producing enough healthy cells: Either red, white or platelets. There are several types and different blood components affected. At this point it may be that your doctors are looking at this disease in its early stage and aren’t able to predict where it’s going yet. So it’s understandable that they might not be recommending the SCT until they know. If/when a specific mutation is identified, then that would be helpful for determining the course of treatment. Does that make sense? And of course, if this continues to proliferate it may influence their decision to go ahead sooner.

I trust my team at Mayo Rochester implicitly. They are the best in the world at what they do and you have the same team…not necessarily my doctor but they share the support BMT teams. So honestly, if you have two Mayo doctors telling you you’re not ready yet, I’d go with their direction. Though I admit I am a bit biased. ☺️

Are your WBC and platelets involved too or just your red cells? Have you been treated with any medications such as hydroxyurea?
Have you had any blood transfusions?

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Hi Lori
I had virtual appts w/ transplant Dr & he gave me the go ahead with transplant. possibly in 2 months.
Did you receive any financial assistance from organizations to help with out of pocket medical costs?
I meet with social worker on Friday afternoon. virtually.

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@bevprescott

Hi Lori
I had virtual appts w/ transplant Dr & he gave me the go ahead with transplant. possibly in 2 months.
Did you receive any financial assistance from organizations to help with out of pocket medical costs?
I meet with social worker on Friday afternoon. virtually.

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Hi Beverly. Congratulations on your go-ahead for transplant! Two months will go by quickly and you’ll most likely be involved in pre-transplant activities before that.

I didn’t have financial assistance, the transplant was paid for through my Medicare provider, Network Health.
They also would have paid up to $10,000 for lodging if I had the transplant in my home state. My husband and I were pretty insistent on Mayo so we ended up paying for lodging.
The social worker’s at Mayo are very helpful with financial ideas, lodging, etc., and of course we have great resources right here in the forum when you’re ready for lodging, what to bring, etc.
Keep me posted, ok?

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@loribmt

Hi Beverly. Congratulations on your go-ahead for transplant! Two months will go by quickly and you’ll most likely be involved in pre-transplant activities before that.

I didn’t have financial assistance, the transplant was paid for through my Medicare provider, Network Health.
They also would have paid up to $10,000 for lodging if I had the transplant in my home state. My husband and I were pretty insistent on Mayo so we ended up paying for lodging.
The social worker’s at Mayo are very helpful with financial ideas, lodging, etc., and of course we have great resources right here in the forum when you’re ready for lodging, what to bring, etc.
Keep me posted, ok?

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Thanks Lori!!
I'll be in touch alot!
Excited for this next chapter.

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@loribmt

Hi Beverly. Congratulations on your go-ahead for transplant! Two months will go by quickly and you’ll most likely be involved in pre-transplant activities before that.

I didn’t have financial assistance, the transplant was paid for through my Medicare provider, Network Health.
They also would have paid up to $10,000 for lodging if I had the transplant in my home state. My husband and I were pretty insistent on Mayo so we ended up paying for lodging.
The social worker’s at Mayo are very helpful with financial ideas, lodging, etc., and of course we have great resources right here in the forum when you’re ready for lodging, what to bring, etc.
Keep me posted, ok?

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Hi Lori
What were your essentials list to bring. I've written my own list, but you may have other things I haven't thought of.

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