@ncteacher Only God knows when it is our time. I truly believe this. doctors are mere humans. Did you know Ruth Ginsburg had pancreatic cancer? Probs it not. It was diagnosed many years ago. She went through treatment, had surgery then lived her life until another tumor popped up. She then had treatment/surgery again. She passed in her late 80s.
All good physicians welcome 2nd opinions. Do not give up that job! The world needs teachers and I am sure you are a blessing to the children and teachers around you. Be a light on the hill and do not give up as long as you have something to contribute. I had a small issue with my onco but I have come to understand him and will stick with him. However, I am travelling to another institution next week for a second opinion on next steps. You are loved and you are needed I am sure! This is a nasty cancer but it can be managed. Be your own Ad o age and find a doctor that is on your team and wills to be a part of your CURE team. I did! He is my surgeon.