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@lclark918 I echo what @pmm said in her post. You deserve to have answers. If your doctor is too busy, does he have a nurse practitioner on staff whom you can confer with, and get solid information on your situation? It may be a matter of explaining that you don't understand exactly what is going on, and you need to feel comfortable with the diagnosis. And, please, your health and case is just as important as the next patient!
Ginger
I have jut begun with a Hematologist, and being this was an accidnet we found the MCUS, I did not think anything about the fact I was told not to worry about this problem and come back in 6 months, but the second time I thought why am I back again if it is nothing? When I was leaving I asked the nurse at the desk, 'WHAT DO I HAVE"? She proceeded to give me a complete explanation. Quite different than the Doctor's explanation. At 92 I am not likely to get over excited about this, but believe me my next discussion with my doctor will be quite different. Never accept that politte pat on the head, and smile "Trust Me". This is YOUR BODY. Understand what is being done and why? If you cannot get these answers from your present doctor, TIME TO CHANGE.
Gina5009
I was a medical social worker for the last 15 years of my career, and I find it offensive that your oncologist hematologist only allows you 10 minutes. You need to find a similarly trained physician who will spend the time with you to assure you about what is going on with your blood work. That’s not right. You’re very generous to think of the other patients but you need to be thinking about you and what you need.
Is there a support group in your home community or can you find someone on this board who is from your home community? Surely someone knows a physician that has some humanistic skills in your area.
I don’t want a physician who will gaslight me, or make light of my diagnosis and risk associated in treatment but I want a physician who will spend enough time with me to answer all my questions, and who I can trust to give me a straight answer while at the same time being kind.
You might want to consider getting a second opinion from a recognized treatment facility that specializes in multiple myeloma.
The nice thing about this board is that there is a wealth of experience in dealing with treatment for MGUS… Watching and waiting… Smoldering multiple myeloma and unfortunately also multiple myeloma. It’s good to know that I have support and people I can go to if I have questions but I am absolutely insistent that I have a doctor that spends the time with me needed to educate and me.