Wow, @mikaylamikaylar That is a tragic set of circumstances for sure. I can hardly imagine!
I have no experience nor expertise in this area, but since real estate is involved you might want to get some legal advice on what your responsibilities might be given you are heir to the property. Also, by getting that off your plate you might also remove some of the pain and anger you are feeling. Again, just a suggestion, but you might be able to tell the county coroner that you do not want the ashes and maybe they could place them in a pauper/unclaimed grave.
You are dealing with a lot and know my suggestions might be beyond your interest and energy levels for this, too.
Do you live close by to all this?
Strength, Courage, & Peace
Thank you Scott for your words of comfort. I live 1/2 hour away. As a paralegal, I know what I have to do and right now, that is nothing until I am forced to. I am not probating his Will. He has nothing. So, I just go day by day hoping my anger will turn to whatever the next stage is, I forget. You take care of yourself too.