I hope you have found an answer for both of you.
I am so worried about our financial situation that I feel sick. I try to talk to banks and other companies and online, but don’t get much help. Everything is getting jumbled up and I can’t think straight. Then my spouse starts with his silliness and questions that require answers right away or he starts his sarcasm again, which I now tell him to stop.
So I can definitely relate to your frustration and anger. I lost it yesterday after my spouse and I went to see our doctor. Doctor wasn’t there but an assistant came in. We waited over half an hour to see her and I felt terrible. I gave her paperwork for refills which she set aside and didn’t look at. Then she blamed me for not giving her the paperwork. I told her I was sick and didn’t appreciate her blaming me and I walked out. Something else I tried to deal with and I lost it.
Then we went to return items my spouse had bought and because I was sick, had a difficult time finding the info I needed for the returns. I was running back and forth to get a cart for his returns. People were looking at me like I’m a crazy woman rushing around with a cart. Afterwards, I cried for about half an hour and wanted to cry more, but we were running errands and I didn’t want to make a scene. I was shaking so bad and it was uncontrollable. Got home, took cold meds and slept for an hour. Felt much better and had a good evening.
Everything is overwhelming, especially people.