Rudy I would strongly recommend going to a Pelvic Floor specialist who uses a biofeedback device. I am 5 years post surgery and still suffer from incontinence. You are only 5 weeks post surgery. I did go to a PF specialist after surgery and it really helped but it took a long time to really master the technique and you might have to keep doing them for your entire life. I would recommend the book Prostate Recovery Map by Craig Allingham. At my first consult after surgery, my urologist said it would get better and it did and it has. Everyone is different and while I am totally dry overnight I do use one diaper and pad per day which I am fine with. At 81, I am still able to ski, golf and play squash and lead a normal life. It was recommended that I get the AUS device but for me I thought the idea was much worse than using a pad and diaper per day. We are all different in terms of our tolerance to incontinence. Keep working on it and it will get better. I would suggest only using the clamp as a temporary device to avoid any embarrassing leakage.