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I too have small dog ears on the sides - not as flat as I had hoped. I should have taken a picture to my surgery appointment and said this is what I'm looking for - if you can't or won't do this - then let me know, because this is what I want. I too think the surgeon thought I'd change my mind - I kept saying - my breasts served their purpose and were no longer needed. They don't define who I am or what I look like. I'll request protheses for those times I think I might want to wear something more fitting and want additional shaping. I'm also not sure if the results of my surgery also have anything to do with my body shape and that I'm not as thin as I could be. I'm definitely not fat; but at 70 I'm soft and round in some areas of my body. I had a hysterectomy in my late 30's and have never been able to get that area flat again.

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Hi @bpknitter53 -- thank you for sharing. It seems a lot of us have a similar story to tell as far as preferences and results. I loved your description of being soft and round. I think I'm going to use that from now on. My C-section also made it harder to get a flat belly again. The real question is, were your "dog ears" there before the surgery? Most of my excess weight is in my belly, not chest, so don't let them blame you. Also, about 3 years after my surgery I lost significant weight due to a neurological swallowing issue. Doctors were telling me I was too thin and need to gain weight. Guess what? The dog ears were still there. Very disappointing.

Analogy to explain dog ears for those unfamiliar. Remember Hostess snowballs? Imagine those sitting on the counter. If you remove the cake part (the actual breast tissue), the remaining marshmallow exterior (skin and surrounding fatty tissue) will collapse, lose its shape and be unsightly unless the surgeon takes the time to remove the excess to compensate for lack of stuffing. We shouldn't have to go in for a second surgery to fix that. My apologies if you'll never look at Hostess snowballs the same way again. 🙂