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Frustration with everything. I’m about to lose it

Caregivers | Last Active: Apr 30, 2023 | Replies (47)

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Hello @becsbuddy. Thank you for checking in. It has been crazy. My father was released from skilled nursing last Monday. That afternoon we were notified that they had an outbreak of Covid at that facility. We tested that afternoon. All of us were positive, my parents, my husband and me. All I can think is my poor parents. How cruel this perfect storm has been. I started Hospice for my father that day. They have helped some but my poor mother is exhausted, overwhelmed, in denial and already grieving. My father has deteriorated rapidly and honestly I just hope his peace comes sooner than later. I really appreciate all the words of encouragement from everyone. I’ve taken a lot of deep breaths and I seem to have gotten a second wind for the next phase. One step at a time, one day at a time.

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@psp Oh, no! What poor timing! Are your parents both in assisted living now?
I know you can do this as hard as it is. No, you can’t change the situation and yes, it is hard to change how you react to it. Maybe you could just focus on what you can do. Just small things so you’re mom will know that you’re thinking of her. Daily cards, some flowers, telephone calls, her favorite baked goods, and visits as soon as you test negative. Maybe the facility has a chaplain who could visit, if your Mom wishes.
Just take 1 day at a time. Have you tried meditation. It could be very helpful. I wish I could be of more help, but it is what it is and we can’t change anything. Please stay in touch me when you can.