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Men's Health | Last Active: Dec 15 11:01am | Replies (196)

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@jimhd

@arctic22 Sorry for taking so long to respond.

I haven't tried the shots, primarily because of the cost. I was supposed to begin the process of having the implant when Covid hit. It's been frustrating that treatment of ED is not an essential surgery. I told my urologist that if my finger quit working, it would be considered an essential surgery to repair it. So why not the penis? But I do have an appointment with him next month to move forward with the procedure. Complicating it is my need for a shoulder replacement. I don't know if I want to do both at the same time.

Sexuality is something that we were created with, for procreation first of all, but certainly God knew what He was doing when He made it pleasurable. I really miss that pleasure, as does my wife.

Depression and anxiety are real disabilities that I know have been worse because of ED. And vice versa. But I won't get into that.

I have chosen to have the inflatable implant because it's more natural when it's deflated. Since a lot of time has passed since I discussed this with the doctor, I'll probably have the conversation again when I see him next.

I hope that you're pleased with what you decide to do. I'd be very interested to hear from you post surgery.

Time to go to sleep.

Jim

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My shot are costing right at 95 a bottle ..depending on the dose should give 12 to 16 erections ... I get mine from menMD .. have u talked to your Dr. about this ... most won't go right ot the implant till you have tried the shots .... also my Dr showed me with a implant since I'm a "grower" and not a shower whatever you can grab the head of your penis and pull is what you will get with an implant .. she said you will lose length and if you are obese will lose even more as it is shrunk back into your body .. I'm exploring all the options and I live in an area that has a practice at USF that is has done the largest amount of implants ..best of luck to you keep me posted on your outcome please ..