My mother who was 77 in 2015. Found out she had mm in December. After she fell and broke her back. She stayed in bed at home until I called an ambulance for her in late February. She passed away April 1st. But the reason was because they started her chemotherapy, then gave her a colonoscopy bag, then put her in surgery for a pick line for the chemo. Her body was very weak by then and she contracted staff infection. Which she couldn’t fight off. When doctors tell you what they want to do to your loved one you think they know what they should do but I think sometimes we should consider if they need some time to get stronger after surgery especially if they are on chemotherapy. Just my opinion.