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Pre Liver Transplant and Nervous

Transplants | Last Active: Jan 18, 2023 | Replies (10)

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@katebw

@feruj I can relate to your fears and desire for privacy, especially when liver disease happens or seems to happen suddenly. I’m about 16 months post liver transplant. I was diagnosed after having an episode of confusion/hepatic encephalopathy while driving. In retrospect I had symptoms I explained away for about a year but it was sudden to me. That was March, 2021 and I finally had my day long evaluation with the liver transplant team at MassGeneral in Boston. I was extremely afraid—I was very sick at that point and feared the unknown. However, my partner drove me to Boston from western mass, we stayed overnight in a hotel the night before and here is what happened the day of my evaluation:
1. We met with the nurse coordinator along with other patients for basic education, q&a. 2. Vitals taken and labs done. 3. I met with a hepatologist and a nurse. 4. Met with a social worker. 5. Met with a surgeon and medical director. 6. Met with nurse coordinator. All of this was in one office and providers came to me, I stayed in the same place. The next day I had phone/zoom meetings with a nutritionist, psychiatrist, and financial/insurance guru. All of this sounds intense, but it wasn’t; it was a relief and from there I had a plan. I was listed in September and had my transplant in October. Being hospitalized afterwards was healing and stressful but I got to come home and had Thanksgiving with my family, still in early recovery but feeling well and unbelievably happy. This is a very hard journey. But so worth it to reclaim your life and health. I waited about 10 months before returning to work- a new job as I had to leave my original one- and I’m working part time for a while. I plan to work full time in the fall. Before all this, I took no medicine, had only been hospitalized for appendicitis, and the birth of my daughter. This site has helped me a lot post transplant- feeling in company of others- and I wish I discovered it pre transplant. All care to you.

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Thanks @katebw I can’t explain how reading this just physically released some stress from my shoulders. That step by step is what I needed because I’m generally very even keeled during tough situations…but I didn’t know what questions to ask so I could arrange it properly.
Truthfully, I was aware that it was headed in this direction for years but since I am for all intents and purposes the only person I was responsible for; no kids or husband. I chose to ignore it and live my life doing what made me happy as long as it didn’t hurt or harm anyone…I’ve always worked social service jobs and volunteer a lot. I was carefree as my paycheck would allow. It was only after speaking to my Oncologist during our final meeting (it turned out I didn’t have cancer), that I decided to look into the transplant option.
I am so grateful for this forum and everyone here. These shared experiences are humbling and I now understand how fortunate I am to not be very sick.

It would be wrong of me not to apologize to God and the Universe and everyone here for what I treated so nonchalantly