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This year I celebrated the 20th anniversary of my heart transplant. Often when people learn of my transplant success they say how lucky I am. I point out that luck had nothing to do with it, but it was/is a continued blessing.
It was several years before I got a response from my donor family. Their grief over the loss of a child took a long time to to soften their hearts. They kept my letters, but had never opened them. I have since met the mother and have communicated with the sister.
Hi Dana,
Congrats on your 5 years. My 6th year heartiversary was January 7. Heading up to Mayo Phoenix next week for the tests and evaluation. Have you completed your yearly eval?
Like you, I've written two letters to the donor's family and have yet to hear back. But that's okay. I think taking good care of ourselves is a way to honor our donors. And I saw an amazing quote yesterday I'll share here.
“I would like my life to be a statement of love and compassion - and where it isn’t, that’s where my work lies.”
- Ram Dass
Take care Dana.